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I thought I’d get everyone’s take on other homosexual activities that go on in the bedroom that isn’t anal or oral. What do you guys like to do? It seems that there are a lot of threads on here about bottoming, topping and all things anal but nothing really on anything else. This was brought to my attention with another thread that the OP got his head sort of bitten off for just asking about it so I thought I’d be the second one to get the topic going with a fresh start.

Feel free to discuss intimacy and foreplay (huge fan of intimacy).
 

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yes, intimacy is very much the place to go if you want to make me melt.OH yes.Need to be into the guy to get to that point. Much discovery of every bit of his body, mouth, maybe a bit of his soul? Lets get hot and bothered in bed before we get to sex.Lots of oral play, mouth to mouth, or licking and sucking on body bits too.Sounds are nice if not fake
 

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One thing I like to do is wrestle/fight. The back and forths and fighting for dominance turns me on so damn much it's not even funny. If it ends up getting someone into a headlock, pinning them down, etc... aww man, I love it.

Even acts like smacking and punching, lightly choking and holding onto yours and their throats. I'm very glad I'm with someone who is into it just as I am. So often I get involved with guys who are far too submissive and won't put up a fight or guys who are dominant and get turned off and annoyed of the fact that they have to fight for dominance.
 

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yes, intimacy is very much the place to go if you want to make me melt.OH yes.Need to be into the guy to get to that point. Much discovery of every bit of his body, mouth, maybe a bit of his soul? Lets get hot and bothered in bed before we get to sex.Lots of oral play, mouth to mouth, or licking and sucking on body bits too.Sounds are nice if not fake

I’m a fan of exploration and learning what all of the buttons do (because everyone is different hehehe). I also enjoy sound, there was thread on here a while back with guys talking about how they hate noise and I was like “awwwwww” and just didn’t jump into that one because happen to love noise (loud cummers especially) and I can also be a noise maker. I’m a huge fan of intimacy, I’m one of those people who doesn’t like to take it too serious either. I like to giggle, laugh and play.. you know ^_^ have fun with it. Of course there are those moments where it’s serious business and it can get intense but there is no need for it to be clinical and dry. I enjoy music and soft lighting and all the cheesy romantic classics :p

One thing I like to do is wrestle/fight. The back and forths and fighting for dominance turns me on so damn much it's not even funny. If it ends up getting someone into a headlock, pinning them down, etc... aww man, I love it.
Even acts like smacking and punching, lightly choking and holding onto yours and their throats. I'm very glad I'm with someone who is into it just as I am. So often I get involved with guys who are far too submissive and won't put up a fight or guys who are dominant and get turned off and annoyed of the fact that they have to fight for dominance.



I enjoy a little dominance play but nothing that goes as far as that. I can’t play fight or anything like that or do sports violence because of my past (not opening that can of worms), it puts me in a place where I can’t differentiate play from real.
 

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There are all sorts of other things that aren't anal. Personally I have a love of nipple play, toys, bondage, dom/sub and some water-sports. There is loads of fun to be had with dressing up and role play too ;) I must admit most of the time I do like to end with me getting a good ass pounding......unless docking is involved....... There's a whole new thread though ;)
 

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Talking, he did most of it
Eyeing, (each other) both did, soon led on to other activities
both were not into Kissing, altho when he did it was enjoyable ..
Yeah, very Romantic couple haha
(think he really enjoyed the $ i had, at the time? ha)
 

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There are all sorts of other things that aren't anal. Personally I have a love of nipple play, toys, bondage, dom/sub and some water-sports. There is loads of fun to be had with dressing up and role play too ;) I must admit most of the time I do like to end with me getting a good ass pounding......unless docking is involved....... There's a whole new thread though ;)

I love bondage and nipple play. I really wanna do water sports.
 

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There are all sorts of other things that aren't anal. Personally I have a love of nipple play, toys, bondage, dom/sub and some water-sports. There is loads of fun to be had with dressing up and role play too ;) I must admit most of the time I do like to end with me getting a good ass pounding......unless docking is involved....... There's a whole new thread though ;)

-_- I wanna dock but I'm cut because I'm in stupid ass america where that shit is common without concent of the person actually getting cut.... so yeah -_-. I'm all for toys and dressing up and roleplaying but I don't think I could get into bondage, only light stuff. No bathroom sports for me lol, its neat to watch in porn sometimes but not for me in real life.
 

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One thing I like to do is wrestle/fight.

Yes! Anything active is great. Wrestling is one of my favourites. Massage really turns me on, whether I'm giving or receiving. Working out together, naked, is a good time too. And, of course, there's good old-fashioned docking and foreskin teasing. If all my husband did was tickle my frenulum, I'd be a very happy man.
 
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For me having sex with a friend usually starts with a glass of wine and some talking, about anything, from politics to the latest James Bond movie. And nipple and ball play are certainly on the menu too before arriving at the main course!
 

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I enjoy Kink-play. . You asked (other activities), I will say BDSM -Kink-Leather stuff. . I enjoy Bondage / immobilization, adoration-worship, Compliance play (orders), extreme ass play, fisting, Seonsory Deprivation play, (different sensations), Hoods, blindfolds,

(And honestly my role, and dynamic change depending on who I am with, but those are some areas that interest me).
 

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Kissing, massage, tit-play, talking, frottage, 69, etc. I had an imaginative lover who once tried "almost touching". Running his hands just above my body with almost no contact, he nearly drove me crazy.

Almost touching is something I mentioned to my boyfriend that I want to try. We're jacking ourselves while not touching each other when we do get close. He already claims that it'll drive him crazy and he doesn't want to do it. But I'm determined, lol.
 

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I love message and body contact and some nastey talk (not too wild mind you lol) is great, but if I can talk past the foreplay stage then you aren't doing it right lol. The most legible thing you can get out of my mouth is "ALFKJALFJKASLFKAJSLDF and AHHHH".