Another Manifesto Brought to you by Chrysalis:
This question is difficult to answer...once again, I'm going to make a distinction between fantasy and reality. The fantasy is there are a lot of gorgeous cocks out there, I love looking at them, and I often envision them when writing. The heroines in my stories (and I, in my fantasies) can take much more size, and be stimulated by a variety of shapes. And I have a very active imagination. If I wanted to discuss those "aesthetics," I'd have to write an entirely separate post. :biggrin1:
So, I'm going to write
this post about reality, and the reality is that there is a certain size and shape of cock that is most likely to stimulate my unique anatomy in the most effective way. Every vagina in the world is unique, just as no two cocks are exactly the same.
My particular anatomy consists of a having vagina on the smaller end of the scale. Like many women, stimulation of my G-spot makes me climax sooner and with more intensity. But unlike a lot of women, I have a
very sensitive cervix, which is extremely important in bringing me to a strong orgasm -- as much or more so than the G-spot.
I didn't really understand this until I was with a lover, just kind of relaxing in between, and he had his fingers in me, doing.... something. Something that turned me to liquid butter and was likely to make me his slave!!!

"Oh my God,
what are you doing?" I asked. Of course, like a typical male, at first he tried to withhold this information from me -- it was a magical thing only he could do and I couldn't duplicate it because I didn't know how he was doing it! But he eventually admitted he was "flicking" my cervix, hard. That was when I learned how important the cervix is to me.
To change subjects a bit, I, personally, have never climaxed without some kind of direct clitoral stimulation. I've heard some women on this site say that with an extremely large cock, the girth pulls on the labia, which in turn stimulates the clit. I wouldn't know -- I've never experienced a cock that big. What I do know is that, for me, full penetration is necessary, because my clit needs to make
direct contact with the man's groin at the end of every stroke (in face-to-face positions) to make me climax without manual stimulation.
So in terms of length, I know from all of the above (and from measuring) that the maximum length I can take (and still make groin contact) is 7.5", and I would guess the minimum required to stimulate my cervix to be about 6".
I also know that curved cocks tend to feel a bit better to me than straight cocks. Also, cocks with relatively large heads tend to feel better. I would guess the curve makes it press on the G-spot and rub the cervix harder (depending on position). I have almost no experience with downward curves - I've only encountered one, and it was
so extreme that it was difficult for that man to have sex at all. In searching the galleries here, I was unable to find a cock with a curve that pronounced. Needless to say, the goal there was just to get him in and get him off... I wasn't worried about myself.
Anyway, the curved cocks that have brought me extra pleasure have all been upward curves, and the "extra pleasure" is most intense in face-to-face positions. But a modest downward curve would probably have the same effect in rear-entry positions.
I think the reason the head diameter is important is because it helps stimulate my cervix regardless of the position.
Now, about girth. :biggrin1:
Frankly, although I'm a glutton for punishment in terms of pounding my cervix, I'm a wimp when it comes to rubbing the walls of my vagina. I can't take much friction before I get too sore, and the pain overrides the pleasure. However, there obviously has to be some pressure, otherwise my "hot spots" wouldn't get stimulated.
I think I stated somewhere, because of all those factors, that the best girth for me is >5" but <6".
So what you have here in me is an official "wanna-be" size queen.

I like
looking at huge cocks, and I write and think about them, but at least in this incarnation, I just can't take them. ****sigh****
Finally, there's my own little quirk...I really prefer it when a man's scrotum tightens and draws up the testes significantly during erection. I could say it's because I don't get hit by "loose balls" flying around, but I think the real reason is that I just like it. I don't know why.
The bottom line is that I really don't have squat to complain about, because I happen to have married the perfect cock for my body (oh, is there a
man attached to that thing?... sorry, I forgot). :tongue: And I will unashamedly admit that the characteristics of his cock
did strongly influence my decision to remain in a relationship with him after our initial encounters.
The aforementioned ideal cock (for my body) can be found here, if anyone's interested:
http://www.lpsg.org/gallery/showphoto.php/photo/22011/cat/500/ppuser/67298
I also browsed the galleries for a while, and saw a
lot of breathtaking sights! Of course, I didn't make it even close to all the way through (probably not even halfway). But in terms of the "right" shape for me (in
reality), I found surprisingly few. In terms of the right size, I found almost none (which does not surprise me, given the purpose of this site). Many aren't listed here because I couldn't
see the balls in the picture. Or, none of the pictures were taken erect, which makes it impossible for me to tell what I'd really be in for. And unfortunately, you can't search the galleries by "shape." But following are some (rare!) examples of the kind of shape I prefer, even if some have more size than I could handle: :wink:
http://www.lpsg.org/gallery/showphoto.php/photo/1460/cat/500/ppuser/222
http://www.lpsg.org/gallery/showphoto.php/photo/16952/cat/500/perpage/36/sort/1/ppuser/3314
http://www.lpsg.org/gallery/showphoto.php/photo/23674/cat/500/ppuser/70286
Picky, picky,
picky, I know! After scouring these galleries, I realize how lucky I really am to have found my husband.
Now, would some real size queens please post to this thread and balance me out? I feel like a such a bitch saying I can't take large cocks on a large penis support site. :sorry:
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