The Plot Thickens [She Has An Excuse]

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Paul Vincent, Feb 3, 2006.

  1. Paul Vincent

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    She just text me saying that her friend meant kick me to get me up (I was on the bed) and not anything nasty. However I think 'just kick Paul' meant dump me. What do you think?

    WTF is she playing at anyway...and if she had only meant to kick me to get me up, why did Jade (the ex) wait a whole day to tell me that. I dunno...I dont want to get back with her but just want to know why she's doing what she's doing, if she might actually be telling the truth...

    She wrote an online blog saying she was 'depressed' and that she had made a few mistakes, life is one big lesson etc (she's quite melodramatic). I doubt she'd have wrote that if she hadn't thought we were finished, and her flatmate therefore must have meant for her to dump me.

    I just talked to my flatmate about it and he said 'so...are you gonna make up with her' and thought I overreacted or something? I dont think I did, I dont like people, especially my girlfriend, bitching about me behind my back...
     
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    Paul, IMO this seems like another distraction you could do without. Your earlier posts about struggling with staying on course and matriculation problems at uni restricting your future options seems to be getting lost in the "drama".

    Ask yourself what really matters to you and set some short term goals. Then throw yourself into your life.
     
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    Paul,

    There are wonderful women who DON'T behave this way. Stop torturing yourself.
     
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    Thanks, its sorted. I told her to find someone else, which I think she has
     
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    (she's quite melodramatic)

    Ya think?

    It sounds like a good thrashing with a buggy whip would benefit her tremendously. OK, I stole that from "Gone With The Wind". Seriously though, she's a drama queen and dude, you're a catch and can have your pick. Stock up on the Magnum XL's and enjoy the single life for a while. When you're ready, the right gash...I mean girl will appear.
     
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    Chin up Paul...

    Remember, a truly happy person is one who relies on no one for their happiness - but rather finds it inside themself. You're a sweet young man, and you're going to do fine...
     
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    OK, let me put the paternal instincts in check here... what he said. If I was a girl, I'd sop you up in a biscuit. You're a hottie hottie hot hot with a big dick & you make my bowels tingle. There, I said it <weeping>

    Seriously - her loss, bro...
     
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    See, Paul's a great guy because he puts up with us old fags saying stuff like this...
     
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    Just wait 'til you're a REALLY old fag.
     
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    venom spewing sow...
     
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    I can still pass for 23 and you know it.
     
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    Thanks guys :)
     
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    I know the soul of this good man, has got to be free!

    Get out there and LOVE women. Lots of them.
     
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