the preemptive strike?

[Kevbo]

Ladies:

If your man is going out for the evening or weekend to some place you're pretty sure will have attractive or frisky femmes, do you give him a send-off BJ to undermine his potential arousal? :->

Kevbo

 

[B_Dustydo]

Give him the best sex of his life the night before he leaves.
Write "MINE" in love bites across his lower belly :tongue: and arrange with him to have cam/cyber sex with him every night he is away!

 

[HazelGod]

Give him the best sex of his life the night before he leaves.
Write "MINE" in love bites across his lower belly :tongue: and arrange with him to have cam/cyber sex with him every night he is away!

One of my very favorite words.

 

[EternalCaverns]

I never need to worry about this.

He's quite loyal and it would take far more for him to stray or feel distracted than just a "good look" from someone else.

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

I prefer to be direct, so I would advise him to use a condom.
And, he would still receive knee-buckling send off and welcome home BJs. :yup:

 

[Rubenesque]

I wouldn't... if I felt I had to do any of those things it would mean I didn't trust him not to stray... so I'd end the relationship.

Doesn't matter what you do, you can't force someone to be faithful.

 

[thehighheelsgirl]

My man travels a lot, and we always have hot sex before he leaves!

 

[dolfette]

I wouldn't... if I felt I had to do any of those things it would mean I didn't trust him not to stray... so I'd end the relationship.

Doesn't matter what you do, you can't force someone to be faithful.

i agree completely.

i'd be doing it because i'd miss him.
not through some foolish notion of enforcing Fidelity that way.

 

[ScorpioSlut]

i agree completely.

i'd be doing it because i'd miss him.
not through some foolish notion of enforcing Fidelity that way.

I'll third that. IF I'm doing those things it's because I'd be missing them while he was gone and want to make up for lost time...both before he left and when he returned. If he's gonna cheat he's gonna cheat no matter what I do. Sex to enforce fidelity is just silly.

 

[Fleur]

I'll third that. IF I'm doing those things it's because I'd be missing them while he was gone and want to make up for lost time...both before he left and when he returned. If he's gonna cheat he's gonna cheat no matter what I do. Sex to enforce fidelity is just silly.

4th... :smile:

 

[Symphonic]

Really? I never get this treatment! Then again I never asked... Damnit.

All the same if my girlfriend is leaving for a while, while I don't do anything to assure she's faithful since it's just not something I'm concerned with at all I do enjoy sending her away thinking of me. :>

 

[Kayden96]

She just helps me pack. =(

 

[B_Dustydo]

Well, the way I look at it is if both partners have a high sex drive missing out on sex for days can seem like an eternity.
Camming with him while he is away is a novel way to have sex with him and adds variety to a sex life that's gone a bit stale.

I added the whole "love bite" thing as a poor attempt at humor.
My bad.

 

[MarkLondon]

<snip>

I added the whole "love bite" thing as a poor attempt at humor.
My bad.

Ooh, I dunno. I was thinking of using that tip! But actually, doesn't a love-bite kinda say "Mine!" anyway? I think they're gross on the neck above the collar-line, but I did place my mark on a guy on his shoulder recently.