I know a woman is supposed to be curvy, but hey. I have very soft hips. You know, place your finger on your belly button then move it to your sides. There. That spot, I have fat there. My boyfriend keeps on grabbing it and squeezing it. My question is, do you think he's enjoying it? Would he grab it if he didn't like it (i.e. maybe he's trying to tell me that I need to lose some weight, look how much "deposits" I have there..) I'm confused. He starts by rubbing my back and tracing the curve of waist, then presses into the soft spot and grabs it. Thing is...it really turns me on..