digibacker: Hi guys. This post is mainly for the gay and bi members of the group, but by all means ring in even if you're straight and have some input on the topic. On various posts, the issue of "size queens" has come up. For the most part, size queens are an annoyance to the well-hung crowd, who, quite understandably, resent being sought after simply because they're hung -- there's a whole person there as well. But I'm a guy who often finds myself on the other end of the equation. I don't consider myself a "size queen," but I'm often labeled as one. The problem is, I AM attracted (at least initially) to well hung men. I actively seek them out because, quite honestly, I know I can take their size (I'll avoid getting too graphic here, but lets just say I could take anyone with up to 14" long or 11" around.) The difficulty comes if the topic is broached in correspondence (I generally meet guys through online boards and personals). If I let a well-hung guy know that's something I'm interested in, he often assumes that's the only reason I'm interested in him and brushes me off as yet another size-obsessed, desperate queer. But that's quite far from the truth. Yes, his endowment was something I was attracted to, but I don't consider that any different than being interested in people with particular hair colors, builds or hobbies. It's just another trait someone looks for in a prospective partner. And certainly, regardless of any of those things, it all comes down to how well the two people get along and if they're attracted to one another, as any reasonable person would expect. The trouble is, I usually don't get the chance to find out. I find I'm being discriminated against because I'm attracted to well-endowed guys. They like being admired, but only so far. So, my initial questions for the group are: - If you're well-hung, at what point does the interest someone shows in your endowment cross over from flattery to annoyance? - What signals make you think someone is a "size queen?" (For the record, I detest the term "size 'queen'" because, at least in my case, I'm actually quite masculine. ) And BTW, don't try and pass off that last one as, "hey, he's just trying to harvest tips to avoid being found out." I'm honestly keen to see a real discussion about this one, so also feel free to add any other comments/questions regardless of what side of the equation you've dealt with this topic.