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muscle4big1: Yes, I agree that it is easy usually to filter out those people who are one dimensional, and of course I agree that it is more difficult for those of us who prefer well hung men to meet men than it is for men who like blonds. And I also agree that it should be up to us to demonstrate to our partners that we like them for more than their dicks.
However, I guess what I also learned from being seen as only a musclehead, is that if you never give people a chance because you are sensitive about people liking you for your physical characteristics only, that you might miss out. Since people shut me out when I show an interest in finding well hung partners, I have learned to be a little more forgiving with those who make comments, etc about my muscles.
Learning about someone takes some time, looking at blonds or big arms only takes a second or two. And you don't have to put yourself at risk of rejection for not going up to brunettes or thin men. Finding out about cock size requires opening yourself up to the label 'size queen' But it is a risk I have to take, if I want to find that charachteristic in a man. I guess all I ask is that if you are sensitive about being liked ONLY for your dick, I understand that. I don't like being reduced to pecs and arms either. But give me chance to find out more as well.
However, I guess what I also learned from being seen as only a musclehead, is that if you never give people a chance because you are sensitive about people liking you for your physical characteristics only, that you might miss out. Since people shut me out when I show an interest in finding well hung partners, I have learned to be a little more forgiving with those who make comments, etc about my muscles.
Learning about someone takes some time, looking at blonds or big arms only takes a second or two. And you don't have to put yourself at risk of rejection for not going up to brunettes or thin men. Finding out about cock size requires opening yourself up to the label 'size queen' But it is a risk I have to take, if I want to find that charachteristic in a man. I guess all I ask is that if you are sensitive about being liked ONLY for your dick, I understand that. I don't like being reduced to pecs and arms either. But give me chance to find out more as well.