i'm gay myself but i understand the argument from the other side that pursuing the lifestyle IS a choice
Gay people are born gay, end of story.
This is where I want to give you something to consider:
1. The "lifestyle" argument is an outgrowth of the choice argument and is a code-word for homophobia
There is no such thing as a gay lifestyle. I take care of my kids, work, give to charity, drink beer, flirt with men, love football and other sports, live with my significant other, etc. Nothing out of the norm about that.
No, they're a result of the recruitment drives we have every now and again. We do it to through straight folks off the scent of the secret society.
me and my gay friends use the term 'gay lifestyle all the time'. i have some friends who are like you, kids, work, etc... and i know some people who literally spend all their time just tryin to get dick, that's what we mean when we say lifestyle. someone who's always in the club, always tryin to get some play. i don't understand the comment about lifestyle=code word for homophobia
Yes, they were, they were just in denial or perhaps trying to please family and societal restrictions and ideals. What part of born gay do you not understand?what about guys who are straight for the first part of their life and later discover their homosexuality?? were they born gay??
Yeah, it's a choice.
We get a badge, a membership number, a hat and cool card for our wallets.
It's actually one big secret club like the Masons, we just don't tell straight people about it.
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Wait, when did they stop giving out those neat toaster ovens? :tongue:
Wait, when did they stop giving out those neat toaster ovens? :tongue:
what about guys who are straight for the first part of their life and later discover their homosexuality?? were they born gay??
As they say "denial is not just a river."
No wonder your not very well like Marley :smile:
What inteligent man in his right mind would debate.....
I can choose this "road" which is rather smooth and free of social conflicts.
OR...
I can choose this "road" which is lifetimefull of conflicts, judgement and , and sneers from people you don't even know you and not a easy path at all???????
Which road would you "choose" if you could choose?