Lex
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Honestly, can any of the over the top good looking people here on LPSG chime in on this to enlighten us on what your experience has been on this topic?
See, Earlogjam, I consider you to be an "over the top good looking guy." What do you think?
I have a bud who is stunning (to me, at least): 5'10, 250, rugged, and gorgeous. He is also a total sweetheart: down to earth, approachable, nice. He travels for work all the time. When he goes to bars, he says that the only people who approach him are drunk or drugged out of their minds. When he won't talk to him, it falsely reinforces the misperception that good looking guys are standoffish. "When all I want is a nice guy to talk to me," he said.
FWIW (Although I in no way consider myself to be in Earl's category), I have always tied to be nice and friendly to anyone who takes time to speak, nod or approach me (and my hubby). I have been snubbed enough to know that a little niceness goes a long way.