The Reason Why We Men Should Stop Worrying About Our Cocks

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Well the reason is fairly simple. We ask if we are big enough FOR women. Right ?

So as the question indicates it's something that affects women not men, since it's for them. So by default it's their problem. We should just have sex and have fun and try to be good at it if they don't it's about them not about us. They are the ones unable to have as fun as they want not us. So we shouldn't worry much about it. It's an issue that shouldn't be our concern. For every woman unable to have as fun as she wants there is another one that can. It's that simple actually.
 

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Funny... how something that should be so simple can be so hard to do.

I also think there is an inherent competitiveness in men where we want to be better than the next guy. Has more to do with how we stack up to other men. Seems pretty prevalent in the animal kingdom.
 

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Do you really want to cede your bodily autonomy to a generalized group and say that your issues are their problem? Take responsibility for yourself. Personally I don’t worry about my penis—it is what is—and I believe most men have the same attitude. The sexual pleasure between a woman and myself is not constrained by notches on a ruler. Good sex is an experience, not a measurement. But for those men who do worry about their dicks the solution is easy and clear. Just stop worrying. If there’s something you can do about it, do it, if not move on.

It’s not the duty of every woman on Earth to salve your wounds. Heal thyself.
 

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Do you really want to cede your bodily autonomy to a generalized group and say that your issues are their problem? Take responsibility for yourself. Personally I don’t worry about my penis—it is what is—and I believe most men have the same attitude. The sexual pleasure between a woman and myself is not constrained by notches on a ruler. Good sex is an experience, not a measurement. But for those men who do worry about their dicks the solution is easy and clear. Just stop worrying. If there’s something you can do about it, do it, if not move on.

It’s not the duty of every woman on Earth to salve your wounds. Heal thyself.

It's not about healing any wounds. Please read again my post.
 
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Gonna get controversial but... this is clearly from someone with a heteronomative worldview haha. The point still stands either way but it's so easy to see as someone who isn't hetero. Sorry I don't have any more substance to add.

Incidentally, I worry about my dick for me. I've accepted that I won't have a significant other for a while if ever. Wanting a big/bigger dick is for my selfishness and ego to be honest. Sad but true.
 

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Well the reason is fairly simple. We ask if we are big enough FOR women. Right ?

So as the question indicates it's something that affects women not men, since it's for them. So by default it's their problem. We should just have sex and have fun and try to be good at it if they don't it's about them not about us. They are the ones unable to have as fun as they want not us. So we shouldn't worry much about it. It's an issue that shouldn't be our concern. For every woman unable to have as fun as she wants there is another one that can. It's that simple actually.

No, I don't ask myself whether I'm big enough. Long before I had a clue where my penis stood relative to other men, I had relationships with women. They didn't comment, and I didn't ask. My first encounter with size was actually rejection for being too big. It was a real disappointment as I really liked the woman. But it is what it is.

It's isn't "their problem", and it isn't "our problem", as there is no problem. Size matters to those for whom it matters. That's a minority, and it is no different than whether eye color matters, whether income, or height, or voice, etc. etc. etc. matter. Obsession over anything is a waste of time.
 

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I recently went to a workshop about body image for bears. (Generally bears are larger, hairier gay men, for those who may not know). There were 14 people there including the facilitator and his husband, and we had to go around in a circle and say one thing that we liked about our body and one thing that we didn't. Not surprisingly, at least three people said that they didn't like that their penis was smaller. Of course when clothes came off, people were looking, that's a given. One of the guys who wished that he had a bigger dick was definitely the most hung in the room, and while not massive like some I've seen here, he was well above average.

The thing is, whenever somebody in the circle said "I don't like..." you could see several other people with a look of "but I think that's beautiful/sexy/hot on you" in the circle at the same time. The mirror is not the most accurate representation of how people see us in any way. If you think that you're too small, probably no external approval is ever going to change your mind, whether it's other men, other women, or a combination. You have to decide that you're good enough and no matter what anybody else says, that never changes.
 

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Well the reason is fairly simple. We ask if we are big enough FOR women. Right ?

So as the question indicates it's something that affects women not men, since it's for them. So by default it's their problem. We should just have sex and have fun and try to be good at it if they don't it's about them not about us. They are the ones unable to have as fun as they want not us. So we shouldn't worry much about it. It's an issue that shouldn't be our concern. For every woman unable to have as fun as she wants there is another one that can. It's that simple actually.

Perhaps your thread would have worked a little better if you had ASKED for others to weigh in with their thoughts/opinions/experiences. Maybe that might have helped to generate more of the type of discussion you seek to have?

I offer that suggestion because you made an opinionated statement of how YOU feel. And then asked others to agree with you. Right?

But to answer your question. NO. I've never once worried about whether or not I was big enough for a woman. ;)

But to be honest, I do worry about my cock sometimes. Whether or not I'm going to wear it out after a marathon session. Or recently, what caused the burning sensation when I urinated.

But the size of my cock? Nope. But then again, I don't fret and focus on those things I pretty much cannot change. I got what I got. And it works. Just fine.
 

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Perhaps your thread would have worked a little better if you had ASKED for others to weigh in with their thoughts/opinions/experiences. Maybe that might have helped to generate more of the type of discussion you seek to have?

I offer that suggestion because you made an opinionated statement of how YOU feel. And then asked others to agree with you. Right?

But to answer your question. NO. I've never once worried about whether or not I was big enough for a woman. ;)

But to be honest, I do worry about my cock sometimes. Whether or not I'm going to wear it out after a marathon session. Or recently, what caused the burning sensation when I urinated.

But the size of my cock? Nope. But then again, I don't fret and focus on those things I pretty much cannot change. I got what I got. And it works. Just fine.

it's funny that none can please anyone. a person makes a thread making his intentions and sharing his / her opinion on the first post and people complain. when the same person just asks a question and leaves it at that, he or she is accused that his / her intentions are ill and has his intentions be twisted and presented how anyone sees fit to prove his / her narrative. i choose to be brutally honest with what i this and yes i stand my ground till " proven " wrong, the size issue is should not men's problem, if women want more to achieve the level of satisfaction the want , then this is THEIR problem and men shouldn't worry one bit about it . so no matter what the first post is there is no scenario for the OP to win. either kind of initial post ends up with the poster loosing. so to speak. so keep this in mind for the next thread you visit.
 

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it's funny that none can please anyone. a person makes a thread making his intentions and sharing his / her opinion on the first post and people complain. when the same person just asks a question and leaves it at that, he or she is accused that his / her intentions are ill and has his intentions be twisted and presented how anyone sees fit to prove his / her narrative. i choose to be brutally honest with what i this and yes i stand my ground till " proven " wrong, the size issue is should not men's problem, if women want more to achieve the level of satisfaction the want , then this is THEIR problem and men shouldn't worry one bit about it . so no matter what the first post is there is no scenario for the OP to win. either kind of initial post ends up with the poster loosing. so to speak. so keep this in mind for the next thread you visit.

You made a thread with the title :The Reason Why We Men Should Stop Worrying About Our Cocks. Then you gave your opinion about how YOU feel. And then you asked people to agree with you. RIGHT?
 
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You made a thread with the title :The Reason Why We Men Should Stop Worrying About Our Cocks. Then you gave your opinion about how YOU feel. And then you asked people to agree with you. RIGHT?

lol dude that's hilarious . notice where the question in the post , is set. because i bet 10$ that you didn't , for you to make such a question. my thread has a point of view , people are welcome to agree or disagree and have a constructive discussion, i guess your bias that you have against me for years now , make you see things how you see fit. it's fine at least admit it and be honest with yourself and the community. it'll make you feel better and it'll be refreshing actually.
 

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lol dude that's hilarious . notice where the question in the post , is set. because i bet 10$ that you didn't , for you to make such a question. my thread has a point of view , people are welcome to agree or disagree and have a constructive discussion, i guess your bias that you have against me for years now , make you see things how you see fit. it's fine at least admit it and be honest with yourself and the community. it'll make you feel better and it'll be refreshing actually.

Why do you find this hilarious? You made a statement in the title of your thread. Then you made a statement in your second sentence of your OP. Which is YOUR opinion.

And no, I did NOT miss your question. It was a one word question. Right?
 
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Why do you find this hilarious? You made a statement in the title of your thread. Then you made a statement in your second sentence of your OP. Which is YOUR opinion.

And no, I did NOT miss your question. It was a one word question. Right?

allow me to ignore you from now on and stop you for derailing my thread.
 
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allow me to ignore you from now on and stop you for derailing my thread.
How exactly have I derailed your thread?

I simply offered some suggestions how I thought you might improve your thread responses. And I answered your OP best I could understand what it was I thought you were asking.

I've not said anything to you in any of my posts in this thread that was not polite. Or factual. Right?
 

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MOST men will fuck any woman , I know I will; as long as she has good hygiene; I have high testosterone and it’s like having beer googles 24/7. I have to sometimes readjust my vision and tell myself she’s a “human being” to remove my lust.

Now women are EXTREMELY picky from my sexual experiences I’ve known multiple women who were celibate for 6-7 years so they have no problem waiting it out for their preferences . Most hetrosexual women just like dick in any form; they really don’t care about size as long as its male genitalia. BUT I had at least... hold on let me count.... At least 5 or maybe more like my muscles, personality, height, apartment and when they see my dick they get unenthusiastic and I can feel it. That is the worst fcking feeling ...most of the time I kicked them out of my house. From that point in I knew dick size was important to A lot of women.. not all but definitely a large chunk. I’d say if you’re having a lot of sexual contact with multiple females constantly and they keep coming back over and over you have a good sized dck, period.
Muscles are a bonus, handsome is a bonus but penis size for some women is nonnegotiable because I had all the other qualities and women dumped them all because I wasnt packing 8-9 OR a girthy penis.

To stop the ego bruising I decided to no longer pursue tall women and pursue petite small women. My father who is hung avoids small women and he’s in his 60s he says on average small women have smaller vaginas and tall women have bigger ones. I’m talking about a hung guy who went through the sexual revolution of the 1960s -1980s I’ll never catch his body count; hell, I don’t have the equipment to attract women like him but hey, I’ll take his word for it.

And yes if women didn’t care about dick size us men wouldn’t be so worried about it but yes... women are the choosier sex and they want what they want and if you don’t have it... they’re out.
 

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Has anyone stopped to think that these preferences women have may be more related to how much of a fucking asshole a guy is? (#notallwomen, before some random tries to clock me)

I make my decisions on sexual partners based mostly on how the guy treats me and how we get along. Not at all on the size of his peepee.