Ok, i am not selfish at all, i go down all the time, i lick her everywhere, i play with her nipples non-stop, i rub her all over, she loves it all, thanks me and says its the best its so great... but i get little to no play from her? I heard women complaining about "non affectionate boyfriend" but for a lady to be like that? is that just unheard of ? It is the first time i have ever experienced this! so I ask, how do I ask her or tell her "you are not touching me enough" And no, my body is not nasty, it is very nice, i work out all the time... i sent her a nude pic of myself, and she showed her friends but not the meat, and she said one of her friends said "oh my what i would do to him" and i said to her,"why don't you ask and then do that to me?" she laughed! sorta like "ya right" laugh. It made me angry. anyway, she has never licked my nipple, or even crazed it with her hand, or grabbed it, my chest is nice, i was surprised! is there a reason for this ladies? are any of you like this, and what is the reason? please, i need help, it might end a great great great great great relationship! the reason i dont just ask and tell her because who knows if then she will just do it cuz i asked and not because she wants to, that would make me feel even worse!!!