Just some food for thought..... Discuss, have some crackers and cheese and yes please white whine...I meant wine! :wink:
More adoption = Good.
I can't understand the mindset of being against gays adopting, would you rather the children remain homeless?
As someone who's adopted I can't condone that school of thought.
Kudos to you for finding a home. Was adoption painful for you? What age were u adopted? I'm sorry I just have a lot of questions about it. If I was an orphan I would love to be adopted and find a home, a family and have people love me and treat me like I was their own!
I was adopted very young, only a couple of years old so I wasn't in foster homes or anything. Is it painful? Yeah, especially since my biological parents refuse to speak to me.
That's interesting. I'm wondering why it bothers you. Did you have a good family or are you itching to find the biological parents? Were the parents you had good to you? Sorry if I'm intruding I'm very curious about this. Did y'r bio paents tell you this and if so why aren't you hap[y w/the parents you had? I know it's probably a big bowl of not fun but I'm wondering how you feel!
The person I love most in the world is a gay dad.
Does his name rhyme with seven inch reader?
Yeah, that's it.
I'm in OH right now, and if my skin could crawl off my body because of that post, it would. Thanks, Nudey. I owe you one. :wink:
I hope you can find some peace w/that..a place in yr heart that makes it ok. We all have alot of unanswered questions and that puts pitstops in yr way in life. I can't put myself in yr shoes nor you in mine and we probably wouldn't want each others problems but on this topic I hope you find solice in the fact that the parents that raised you loved you and that the family you have loves you. In the end we all just want to be loved by someone. I hope yr life is great tho and even w/those unaswered questions yr life is good!It's quite alright. No there was no issue with my parents (who adopted me) they're the best parents anyone could ask for.
It's a need for closure I guess. I've never seen my biological parents and kind of want to know what they look like. I'm also very curious to see if I have any half-siblings too. There are vast differences between myself and my family that aren't just visual, there's also big personality differences too. I'd like to see why this is as well.
I've contacted my biological parents and gotten one tiny letter back from my birthmother. She basically said a bunch of platitudes and wouldn't respond after that.
I guess I'd really like to speak to them once at least and move on. For me at least it's been a black cloud hanging over my head my whole life. I know other adopted people who never want to meet their biological parents, and while I understand that thought, I still want to meet them once.