The Secret Fetish of a Black Girl
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Hi. I just read this string and some good insight here. I am a white male with a much younger black girlfriend. I have had desires to introduce race play into our playtime. She is generally submissive by nature. I am finding the right words to ask her difficult to find because I don't want to ruin what we have. She is 20 and I am, well in my 40's............. Any thoughts from the ladies on here would help.
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Ask her how she feels about it. Be general and vague. If she balks - tell her you saw it online and wanted her opinion.
I agree with Tantric for this particular fetish. She might balk, but if she doesn't you have just found to fantasy in the flesh.
Black people and their "white daddy" syndrome is surfacing more and more as we get close to the end of social norms. As generations pass, black women will find themselves more and more isolated from black men, by voluntary solution and social survival. Funny thing is that racism lives in the strangest corridors of society. And this forum is often a rest haven for such ideas.
I've always been attracted to black women I love their curves and the contrast of our skin especially my cock entering them I always thought white guys were not of interest but I'm finding that actually black women love to be with white guys plus they know how to handle a big cock
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This is hot, classic sub behaviour with an added taboo. I doesn't mean one person hates themselves and the other is a racist, just that doing taboo things in private with someone you trust is sexy. Rape play doesn't mean a woman wants to be raped or that the man is a rapist. Any kink you have with consenting adults is no one else's to judge.
I agree with Tiggerpoo- my advice is find a guy who loves you for who you are and train him. This way your desires can be full filled without risking harm by someone who is actually racist deep inside and wants to do you real harm or disrespect. That way it is just sex play and that stays in the bedroom and doesn't trickle into your life outside role play which could be damaging, best of luck!
Shit. As a white guy who has dated almost exclusively african ladies, this would be sexy as hell for me - but I've never encountered it upfront like this. It would always be more along the lines of "fuck me, you viking" and playing on the outlines of our differences.
Sexually.. we need to go to places like this before we've been alive.
Sexually.. we need to go to places like this before we've been alive.
i think it's sexy if you enjoy it.
it almost (very tenuously) compares to wanting to be called daddy but being scared of the paedophile stigma?.
i say all you can do is get secure in your relationship and then explore it as a kink. have an outside the bedroom talk about it first outlining your boundaries, i.e when and how this feels good for you and when it doesnt.
a caring partner could hopefully be able to overcome the stigma and help you feel good in privacy.
best of luck
it almost (very tenuously) compares to wanting to be called daddy but being scared of the paedophile stigma?.
i say all you can do is get secure in your relationship and then explore it as a kink. have an outside the bedroom talk about it first outlining your boundaries, i.e when and how this feels good for you and when it doesnt.
a caring partner could hopefully be able to overcome the stigma and help you feel good in privacy.
best of luck
Exaxtly... or if you had brothers or cousins, the white guy would be paid a visit and a very painful visit at that.. If I were white men, I would just avoid the whole race play all together. You just might come across the wrong woman on the wrong day and like I said, it can be very painful for you...
Don’t care what race you are it should be avoided..
Don't feel bad about what you enjoy! I know that can be difficult at times, but the best part is finding someone that makes those difficult things easy. Humans have a ridiculous ability to compartmentalize thoughts. Having specific sexual desires doesn't have to go past "this makes me horny."
https://www.lpsg.com/threads/partne...are-uncomfortable-with.5032671/#post-68039601
So this seems to be the other side of this thread.. I don't like to kink shame, but I think it's appropriate here. There is something inherently unhealthy about race play, specifically that between black and white individuals, that I don't think anyone should be engaging in, full stop. Hopefully OP has sought counseling to see why degradation with such a historical and contemporary context has that effect on her..
So this seems to be the other side of this thread.. I don't like to kink shame, but I think it's appropriate here. There is something inherently unhealthy about race play, specifically that between black and white individuals, that I don't think anyone should be engaging in, full stop. Hopefully OP has sought counseling to see why degradation with such a historical and contemporary context has that effect on her..
@CaveMan87
I agree with you CaveMan87. There is also guaranteed social punishment by sexually restrictive Persons of Color of Persons of Color who explore this as fetish. So much so, I challenge you to find a Person of Color outside of fetish/kink communities who will proudly own this on the local news, CNN, or Facebook. The old sage lady will yell at you to "lower your head," in shame.
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