Last night I broke up with my bf because I feel we aren't compatible sexually. Is that wrong? Of course I didn't tell that was why. A big reason I did it was because I wasn't satisfied sexually.. Otherwise he's a good guy and from my understanding thus far of the gay world faithful good men a very few and far between. Some background... I'm newly "out" so this was my first real gay relationship, so I have some curiosities I'd like to explore with the one I'm with, not my style to fuck and then get to know someone later. I'm a top. Reasons I say we are not compatible.... Sex is fairly rare, once every two weeks average, when there is sex, he doesn't like giving head, doesn't like me getting a little rough, not willing to try dif positions etc... Basically is it wrong to place so much weight on sex? Selfish? Your thoughts would be appreciated..