The Shallow-Deep Thrusting Technique: Yay or Nay?

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I read about that technique a while ago as a way to increase endurance. Except you use a pattern like so:
9 shallow - 1 deep
8 shallow - 2 deep
7 shallow - 3 deep
etc. until you are at 10 deep. rinse repeat.

Hmm, or if you want to really complicate things, which would make you last a helluva long time, you could use prime numbers...

1 deep, 2 shallow, 3 deep, 5 shallow, 7 deep, 11 shallow, 13 deep. If you make a mistake, take your cock out and rub it vigorously on her clit (like erasing a chalkboard) and start all over again.

This is a technique? I thought this was just extended foreplay. I'll put a good 20 bucks on this having been developed from a large member-ed guy trying not to hurt their lover/sex partner during the first time.

I guess you're of the mindset that "Let's just put the tip in" is foreplay? :biggrin1:

Although, you may have a point. I do notice my wife craves the deep spot grinding for much longer if she's teased first. Likewise, when her backstop's gotten too sore, I just do shallow strokes until she craves for it again.

I think it's a love-hate thing. I hate it, really passionately hate it. But I LOVE the control factor. Makes me melt in floatyness when he finally lets me have what I want.

And the lube seems to puddle up deep inside too. Makes that squishy squishy sound when I finally go deep. :biggrin1:
 

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Well, I love penetrating as deep as I can and as deep as the woman can take it. So now that I know how you like it, I'll remember to NEVER fuck you with shallow strokes :kiss:

Simba

It's a deal :biggrin1:.


Hmm, or if you want to really complicate things, which would make you last a helluva long time, you could use prime numbers...

1 deep, 2 shallow, 3 deep, 5 shallow, 7 deep, 11 shallow, 13 deep. If you make a mistake, take your cock out and rub it vigorously on her clit (like erasing a chalkboard) and start all over again.

You know, that would be an utterly horrible experience - someone so busy counting deep and shallow strokes that they forgot to focus on the sex.


And the lube seems to puddle up deep inside too. Makes that squishy squishy sound when I finally go deep. :biggrin1:

I used to be so embarrassed about that sound!!! Not anymore, thanks to this site :tongue:.
 

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i love the shallow strokes.

the feeling is close to the pre-orgasmic rush, without the orgasm. the feeling is bright, sharp... quickfire. the best is the tease.. that elongation of what is usually a a brief moment before the plunge. i'll have flittery, quick orgasms if he keeps it up. orgasms without that deep body thrump i am looking for.

do i want him to thrust deep? fuck, yeah. i'll grab him. pull him. order him to. but he won't. son'of'a'bitch!

from the physical force he'll use to keep me pinned from moving against his strokes... to the look on his face, knowing he wants to let go as much as i want him too. prrrr, my goodness, purrrr.

when he, i, we finally can't take it anymore.. a balls deep thrust, that he holds, always for too damn long. followed by an equally torturous withdrawal. is enough to make you feel like crying. you kinda disappear into want/gimme/now/please.

he'll start long, deep, hard strokes. grinding when he's as deep as he can get. over and over.. followed by a couple minutes of deep, grinding.. i get orgasm, after orgasm.. until every feeling blurs. i can feel the orgasmic contractions through my whole body. i think he uses the grind to hold off his own orgasm.

*gets all smile-happy* we know each other well enough to ride an edge for a good long while. resulting orgasms are coma inducing. the boy says i am ultimately agreeable in that state.

*calls boy immediately*
 

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i love the shallow strokes.

the feeling is close to the pre-orgasmic rush, without the orgasm. the feeling is bright, sharp... quickfire. the best is the tease.. that elongation of what is usually a a brief moment before the plunge. i'll have flittery, quick orgasms if he keeps it up. orgasms without that deep body thrump i am looking for.

do i want him to thrust deep? fuck, yeah. i'll grab him. pull him. order him to. but he won't. son'of'a'bitch!

from the physical force he'll use to keep me pinned from moving against his strokes... to the look on his face, knowing he wants to let go as much as i want him too. prrrr, my goodness, purrrr.

when he, i, we finally can't take it anymore.. a balls deep thrust, that he holds, always for too damn long. followed by an equally torturous withdrawal. is enough to make you feel like crying. you kinda disappear into want/gimme/now/please.

he'll start long, deep, hard strokes. grinding when he's as deep as he can get. over and over.. followed by a couple minutes of deep, grinding.. i get orgasm, after orgasm.. until every feeling blurs. i can feel the orgasmic contractions through my whole body. i think he uses the grind to hold off his own orgasm.

*gets all smile-happy* we know each other well enough to ride an edge for a good long while. resulting orgasms are coma inducing. the boy says i am ultimately agreeable in that state.

*calls boy immediately*

:grinning-smiley-003 That description provokes deeply familiar fleshbacks.
 

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I love your almost cryptic teasing replies!! You need to expand on this, please?

Lust, wanting and anticipation of fulfillment is oh so much sweeter than the blunt force approach. Experience has taught me that many men my age and beyond have yet to learn this, or quickly forget once intercourse ensues.
 

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That was hilarious. More hilarious is the fact that I count 10 ways a woman can cum:

1) Nipple
2) Clit
3) Introitus (yeah, my wife can cum from that one)
4) G-spot
5) G-crest (look this one up, but my wife has this area just behind the rough area of the g-spot)
6) Anterior fornix
7) Cervix (an ex FB could cum from that one hard)
8) Posterior fornix/cul-de-sac/deep spot <-- our favorite
9) mid-spot (subgirrl explained that one to me)
10) Anal

...I'm sure there are many more.
 

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That was hilarious. More hilarious is the fact that I count 10 ways a woman can cum:

1) Nipple
2) Clit
3) Introitus (yeah, my wife can cum from that one)
4) G-spot
5) G-crest (look this one up, but my wife has this area just behind the rough area of the g-spot)
6) Anterior fornix
7) Cervix (an ex FB could cum from that one hard)
8) Posterior fornix/cul-de-sac/deep spot <-- our favorite
9) mid-spot (subgirrl explained that one to me)
10) Anal

...I'm sure there are many more.

Errr..you wouldn't happen to have a diagram would ya? :cool:
 

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That was hilarious. More hilarious is the fact that I count 10 ways a woman can cum:

1) Nipple
2) Clit
3) Introitus (yeah, my wife can cum from that one)
4) G-spot
5) G-crest (look this one up, but my wife has this area just behind the rough area of the g-spot)
6) Anterior fornix
7) Cervix (an ex FB could cum from that one hard)
8) Posterior fornix/cul-de-sac/deep spot <-- our favorite
9) mid-spot (subgirrl explained that one to me)
10) Anal

...I'm sure there are many more.

Aww, I'm flattered to see my mid-spot get a mention!

Personally, I would break anal up into two, but one of those two would be the other side of the mid-spot (perineal sponge) anyway, and that's really doubling up. The second is a more general sense of pleasure, rather than being related to a specific spot.


Errr..you wouldn't happen to have a diagram would ya? :cool:

Funnily enough, RawDog and I have indeed played with that idea in the past :biggrin1:.
 

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The head of my dick is incredibly sensitive and when I am nearly there one one of the way I get off is to just to rub the head in and out till i nearly cum, then 2-3 deep thrusts and I am spurting the whole way
 

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That was hilarious. More hilarious is the fact that I count 10 ways a woman can cum:

1) Nipple
2) Clit
3) Introitus (yeah, my wife can cum from that one)
4) G-spot
5) G-crest (look this one up, but my wife has this area just behind the rough area of the g-spot)
6) Anterior fornix
7) Cervix (an ex FB could cum from that one hard)
8) Posterior fornix/cul-de-sac/deep spot <-- our favorite
9) mid-spot (subgirrl explained that one to me)
10) Anal

...I'm sure there are many more.

Engineer!!! lol
 

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Shallow and deep strokes in alternation or at random is a great idea for a very simple reason: contrast. If it's always deep that lessens the intensity of the experience, but if it shallow for a bit and I adjust, and then deep.... *groan*:bigok:
 

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Shallow and deep strokes in alternation or at random is a great idea for a very simple reason: contrast. If it's always deep that lessens the intensity of the experience, but if it shallow for a bit and I adjust, and then deep.... *groan*:bigok:

Welcome to the forums, neighbour!