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for those in relationships what are some signs you give your partner to let them know you want to have sex?
Do you have signs or is it more of a start kissing and see where it goes?
And if you do give signs what do you do if your partner isn't getting any of your signs or hints?
How direct and forward are you?
 
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We’re upfront about our intentions. I came from a past of being very frank about all things sexual. I’m a guy who doesn’t like ambiguity.
I’m married so on the spectrum of relationships perhaps that puts me in a different position than someone who’s in a new committed relationship but not married.
Everyone is different and I could see where my frank approach might be received as confrontational. My advice is to be as forward as possible. Sexual incompatibility can be a huge problem in relationships. Being coy can lead both of you to be frustrated.
 

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We kind of go for it. We kiss and start rubbing the other. If one of us is not in the mood/tired just sais so and we stop right there. Maybe the horny one jacks off, maybe we just let it go for the night, it depends really.
But yeah, there are no signs other than grabbing the other's junk or start humping his ass like an epileptic rabbit.
I guess we are past the point of "do you want to..." "only if you want to..."
Now that I put it in writing it sounds a bit like a rapey relationship, but I assure you it's not.
 
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Generally, we can tell from the way we touch each other, or start to touch our own bodies. Occasionally, we strike up some dirty talk.

And yes, when either of us detects ambiguous signals from the other, we don’t hesitate to use our words. “Feeling horny?” is my go-to phrase, but he varies his repertoire a bit. And no, it doesn’t kill the mood. Getting the green light is exciting.

And if the other partner ain’t feelin’ it, the horny one takes care of business in his own way. The unhorny partner sometimes finds the show quite amusing,
 
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If you're in a new relationship, the sign is that you're doing it all the time anyway

Remember - in all relationships, gay or straight, sex stops after about a year, so if you're not doing it, that's a good sign that you're in a long-term deal or married :)
 

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If you're in a new relationship, the sign is that you're doing it all the time anyway

Remember - in all relationships, gay or straight, sex stops after about a year, so if you're not doing it, that's a good sign that you're in a long-term deal or married :)
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