The spirit was willing...

[D_Dick_Jerqhoff]

Hey guys. I know there are alot of posts on this subject, but I need therapy so I've posted another. I recently met this girl and last night was our second date. Everything was amazing and at the end of the night she asked me to come up to her place. We fooled around and one thing lead to another and soon we were in our undies in her bed. The moment came to reveal my buddy and what did he do? Nothing! I couldn't get it up!!!!! Now I note that it was a Friday night and I'm typically a zombie on those days anyway, and this was a particularly stressful and tiring week. Plus we were fooling around at about midnight. But I've been dwelling on this ever since. I wanted her to see the big boy in full glory and it just annoys me that it didn't work!!! I kinda pride myself on being a porn star but I'm really not...conditions have to be right and if I'm tired it seems to really affect my performance. Perhaps I should avoid the Friday date? Or pop some kind of supplement if I am going out? Ugh Any words of wisdom?

 

[bicuriousbc]

Relax
Take it easy.
When you are comfortable and not tired it will function as it should.

 

[goodwood]

Oh geez. Sorry man. That totally sucks. Stress is a total willy killer. All i can say is that is does happened, has happened to me. Its really stressful. If she was in any way a decent chick, she would be happy to have another go when the timing might work out better for you. I am not suggesting that you need it, but do you have any friends that you could snag a viagra from? Good luck and keep us posted.

 

[D_Pubert Stabbingpain]

What a shame, especially after viewing your pix!
Did she offer any oral support at all?
Sometimes carrying a cockring might help in such circumstances but it sounds like you just need to take it easy for a while and get some rest.

 

[hung]

I would certainly agree with a previous poster on this topic. Did She Offer you any Moral Support.

 

[Ric1]

relax and take it slow with no expection.

 

[PurpleThrillHammer]

I know how you feel :frown1: Had my dick let me down once on a hook up

Never again, I picked up some 50mg viagra soft tabs. Now no worries with those hook ups or first times !!! :wink:

 

[D_Dick_Jerqhoff]

Thanks for the support! She was actually great about it and was tired herself, and actually started drying up too. It's just me - I analyze these things and take too much on myself. BTW I do have some cialis but have to take it easy as it makes me feel like crap if I take too much...I wasn't expecting anything last night but might take some along in the future to avoid such situations.

 

[Notsoproud]

second date? Will be a third then

Just do better next time

 

[D_Dick_Jerqhoff]

Thanks for the words. So it's gotten better since the first time, but I'm still not up to full speed yet. I've had so many late nights lately and the exhaustion affects the boner + I have my mind on it. We had a great session on Saturday morning after I slept over. She said my big cock feels amazing and she gets tense trying to take it. So I guess we're both getting used to each other!