I hear people talk about meeting someone in the bookstore or the produce section or just out for a walk and the whole concept seems completely impossible to me. Practically every day I'll see some guy I wouldn't mind getting to know but the best I could do is say hi and about all that'll get is a hi in return. That's that, probably never see him again. Not really even worth the breath it took to say hi. When you meet an attractive guy at random how can you go about finding out if he's gay and then if the attraction is mutual? How can you approach him without seeming like a creep? Or is it just more realistic to stick with gay bars/clubs (which I've never tried) and the internet (which I'm completely unsuccessful with)?