The Summer Pool Scene And Strategies?

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hi all, i just got back from a jaw dropping experience at a summer pool scene and would like to get feedback and insight on a few things.

Granted, i don't get out much, especially with Covid, but being Vaxxed now, I spent all day at a pool in Arizona that was exploding from corner to corner with drop dead gorgeous women from 10am to 7pm. It was truly revelatory. I am sure you guys have had a lot of experiences with similar scenes in Vegas, etc of beautiful young to middle age women in tiny, thongs and bikinis dancing to a DJ all day long while making tipsy trips to the bar.

For me, it was eye opening, earth shattering and revelatory. I probably saw more tits and ass at this pool than at a topless bar.

I'm a single male and obviously didn't have much of an advantage since I didn't know anybody. Many girls seem to be their with girlfriends and/or guy friends. There was a bachelorette party and some birthday parties in cabanas as well.

Have you had any success picking up girls at these venues? what's your strategy? any tips and pointers? I would assume the same typical laws of females apply here as well. Women are there to get sun, drink and socialize, not to fuck. The fact that they're half naked really doesn't mean you're going to get laid. Despite that all their tits and asses are falling out everywhere.

Also, I didn't know anybody really, so I was curious how you've done with women in these types of scenarios. Also, I wanted to wear my thong showing off my size, (even though I know women hate it).

It seems like all other routes, it's going to take a lot of trial and error and a lot of money. I'm guessing you have to approach girls, make small talk, buy them drinks, if you have a cabana, which can be 700$ and prime real estate, they'll appreciate you even more.

what's your take? how have you done? any strategies for getting women at these scenes?

Also, all the dudes wore board shorts, and the alpha dogs were jacked with tattoos and island tans. But i really wanted to wear my thong and spice things up. But i ended up wearing board shorts like everybody.

I would like to go back with a strategy and try again, if you guys have any pointers. thanks!
 
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thanks. maybe i will. but i swear women say so much that they hate that thongs.

Thong on my brother! I’m sure you would have been praised and acknowledged for rocking one yourself. Tbh it sounds like one of my fantasies lol
 

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No personal experience, but a good buddy lived in Myrtle Beach for a while in his 20s. He got a lot of pussy! He said women visiting were there for a good time and no strings attached. If they were out drinking with girlfriends, he'd strike up a conversation and flirt like hell. Some had boyfriends back at home and maybe some had husbands. Show them you are fun and see where it leads.
 

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that sounds like a good tip. makes sense. thank you!

i'm guessing no on the thong?


No personal experience, but a good buddy lived in Myrtle Beach for a while in his 20s. He got a lot of pussy! He said women visiting were there for a good time and no strings attached. If they were out drinking with girlfriends, he'd strike up a conversation and flirt like hell. Some had boyfriends back at home and maybe some had husbands. Show them you are fun and see where it leads.
 

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In general, girls HATE guys wearing thongs. I think that guy was joking with you. Personally, I wish thong swimwear was normal attire for men and women - maximum tan and minimum care about what anyone thinks, if it's what everyone is doing.

Realistically you don't go to pool parties alone, ever. Those that do are seen as weirdos, putting it nicely. Even when not wearing a thong, LOL!
 
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totally agree. but all my friends are married with kids. so i don't have anyone to go with.

i did notice though that if i can snag a good seat by the pool women naturally want to be close to you. they want a lounge chair and drinks bought for them.

but man, i love women's reactions when they stare. i worry about all the meat head bros though, i don't want to get in a fight with some tiny dicked, steroid freak who's had one too many budweisers and wants to pick a fight with me because his girlfriend was staring at my advertising. ha.

ps. why do you think women HATE thongs so much? when they wear the tiny string bikinis themselves? it looks good on them, but a guy can't advertise? how does that make sense? i mean, i get it, but i don't... you know?


In general, girls HATE guys wearing thongs. I think that guy was joking with you. Personally, I wish thong swimwear was normal attire for men and women - maximum tan and minimum care about what anyone thinks, if it's what everyone is doing.

Realistically you don't go to pool parties alone, ever. Those that do are seen as weirdos, putting it nicely. Even when not wearing a thong, LOL!
 

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If I was equipped like you, I'd want to show the goods too! I know that a thong would show it off the best but how about a compromise? Aussiebum's can be good for showing some bulge. I bought some shorter, square-cut ones from Andrew Christian and cut the liner out and it shows bulge nicely without maybe being as "obscene" as a wet thong might offend some ladies.
 
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nice. thank you. ill check it out! do you have a link or a site to the one you tried? thanks!


If I was equipped like you, I'd want to show the goods too! I know that a thong would show it off the best but how about a compromise? Aussiebum's can be good for showing some bulge. I bought some shorter, square-cut ones from Andrew Christian and cut the liner out and it shows bulge nicely without maybe being as "obscene" as a wet thong might offend some ladies.
 

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The Andrew Christian ones I bought a few years are no longer sold; they change their lines constantly. But this time of year they'll be introducing the summer stuff. Look for the ones that seem to have ample room up front or are advertised as bulge-producing. lol Aussiebums can be amazing for showing bulge but I have a "waist" now so haven't tried them. lol Mens Swimwear | Shop Men's Swimwear Online | aussieBum

Of course, moving away from board shorts at ALL will shift attention to you. If you don't mind being seen in a thong in such a setting, then I suppose you wouldn't mind being in a speedo-style, but you may get the same disapproval that you've heard a thong will get you. But if you get a short short with an ample space up front, it may be just fine. I wear such a thing at my gym for the pool and hot tub where I would never wear a thong or speedo. Others here may know of other choices for a bulging square-cut swimsuit...
 

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thanks. there are SO MANY CUTS and styles here. which one resembles the cut you're talking about?



The Andrew Christian ones I bought a few years are no longer sold; they change their lines constantly. But this time of year they'll be introducing the summer stuff. Look for the ones that seem to have ample room up front or are advertised as bulge-producing. lol Aussiebums can be amazing for showing bulge but I have a "waist" now so haven't tried them. lol Mens Swimwear | Shop Men's Swimwear Online | aussieBum

Of course, moving away from board shorts at ALL will shift attention to you. If you don't mind being seen in a thong in such a setting, then I suppose you wouldn't mind being in a speedo-style, but you may get the same disapproval that you've heard a thong will get you. But if you get a short short with an ample space up front, it may be just fine. I wear such a thing at my gym for the pool and hot tub where I would never wear a thong or speedo. Others here may know of other choices for a bulging square-cut swimsuit...
 

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hi all, i just got back from a jaw dropping experience at a summer pool scene and would like to get feedback and insight on a few things.

Granted, i don't get out much, especially with Covid, but being Vaxxed now, I spent all day at a pool in Arizona that was exploding from corner to corner with drop dead gorgeous women from 10am to 7pm. It was truly revelatory. I am sure you guys have had a lot of experiences with similar scenes in Vegas, etc of beautiful young to middle age women in tiny, thongs and bikinis dancing to a DJ all day long while making tipsy trips to the bar.

For me, it was eye opening, earth shattering and revelatory. I probably saw more tits and ass at this pool than at a topless bar.

I'm a single male and obviously didn't have much of an advantage since I didn't know anybody. Many girls seem to be their with girlfriends and/or guy friends. There was a bachelorette party and some birthday parties in cabanas as well.

Have you had any success picking up girls at these venues? what's your strategy? any tips and pointers? I would assume the same typical laws of females apply here as well. Women are there to get sun, drink and socialize, not to fuck. The fact that they're half naked really doesn't mean you're going to get laid. Despite that all their tits and asses are falling out everywhere.

Also, I didn't know anybody really, so I was curious how you've done with women in these types of scenarios. Also, I wanted to wear my thong showing off my size, (even though I know women hate it).

It seems like all other routes, it's going to take a lot of trial and error and a lot of money. I'm guessing you have to approach girls, make small talk, buy them drinks, if you have a cabana, which can be 700$ and prime real estate, they'll appreciate you even more.

what's your take? how have you done? any strategies for getting women at these scenes?

Also, all the dudes wore board shorts, and the alpha dogs were jacked with tattoos and island tans. But i really wanted to wear my thong and spice things up. But i ended up wearing board shorts like everybody.

I would like to go back with a strategy and try again, if you guys have any pointers. thanks!
Is not your penis it’s you, you have to move your ass and start talking or you will be the wird perv guy in no time. Try not buying things if not requested, focus on the talk hear her and be funny and interesting without looking for something, try to have a good time knowing people. It’s very likely most of them are on a relationship but with a good impression she can introduce to a friend that is available.
If anyone is interested if you are packing she already knows by the bulge on your board shorts and when you go out of the water.
Doesn’t sound like a swimming place so a speedo is useless and perhaps there is a dressing code, please don’t wear a thong nobody wants to see your ass you certainly will be miss understood and the woman will introduce you their gay friends.
Super important try to look at their faces I know it’s distracting all the flesh but if you get lost on an ass that means you can’t get any otherwise it’s just an ass.
Good luck
 

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thanks. there are SO MANY CUTS and styles here. which one resembles the cut you're talking about?

If you're talking about Aussiebum's swimwear page, the fifth row containing "Surfstretch". The "Handlebar" further down may be better for you, but is so short, it's almost a bikini.

For Andrew Christian, what about this one? Sexy Men’s Swimwear Beach Club Trunk w/ Logo Charm | Andrew Christian

Or this one: Sexy Men’s Swimwear Palm Colony Mesh Trunk | Andrew Christian
Or this one: Sexy Men’s Swimwear Del Sol Trunk | Andrew Christian
Or: Sexy Men’s Swimwear Shore Trunk | Andrew Christian
 
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these are great tips thank you! you really know women.i know what you mean.
it's not really a thong. closer to a speedo i guess. it has a back but it accentuates the bulge in the front.


Is not your penis it’s you, you have to move your ass and start talking or you will be the wird perv guy in no time. Try not buying things if not requested, focus on the talk hear her and be funny and interesting without looking for something, try to have a good time knowing people. It’s very likely most of them are on a relationship but with a good impression she can introduce to a friend that is available.
If anyone is interested if you are packing she already knows by the bulge on your board shorts and when you go out of the water.
Doesn’t sound like a swimming place so a speedo is useless and perhaps there is a dressing code, please don’t wear a thong nobody wants to see your ass you certainly will be miss understood and the woman will introduce you their gay friends.
Super important try to look at their faces I know it’s distracting all the flesh but if you get lost on an ass that means you can’t get any otherwise it’s just an ass.
Good luck
 
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these are great tips thank you! you really know women.i know what you mean.
it's not really a thong. closer to a speedo i guess. it has a back but it accentuates the bulge in the front.


I'd love to see you in that! Whatever you decide on, take pics for us to see what you chose! :)
 

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this is me in my suit. but women seem to hate it.

Well, I think you look amazing in it, and obviously shows how well hung you are. I do understand that most women these days want a bit more mystery, and don't want to see exposed buns or tons of cock detail. lol Go figure! And maybe straight women consider this a suit that would be worn by a gay fellow and therefore not a target playmate? Not sure.
 

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this is me in my suit. but women seem to hate it.
Well that’s not a speedo try to picture Phelps using that, not going to happen. Perhaps is a thong after all by the narrow part of the sides. It’s something a stripper would use on his act.
I guess they would hate and if it that far from what is expected where you live it will make you appear needy or just a perv.
 
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ugh. i appreciate your honesty. i hate that women think like this. but i agree with you. i think at a gay pool, i would be well received sadly.


Well that’s not a speedo try to picture Phelps using that, not going to happen. Perhaps is a thong after all by the narrow part of the sides. It’s something a stripper would use on his act.
I guess they would hate and if it that far from what is expected where you live it will make you appear needy or just a perv.
 
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Three simple rules at events like those if you want a woman to be interested at all:

1) Don't be a douchebag
2) Don't be a douchebag
3) Don't be a douchebag

Stick to board shorts. Banana hammock will just advertise to women that's all you have to offer. If you want a woman to be interested in your junk, you need to have a likable personality first, so unless you're at a swingers party where nudity is required, don't try to be 99% there in a different setting.

"Why do women hate men in thongs and showing off when women can wear thongs?" That's life.

And even if a woman you're attracted to there is hanging out with a douchebag, you won't out-douchebag that douchebag enough to make her want to switch douchebags.

Just be cool, man.