Kotchanski
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Yes, but it seemed like he was equating the man's lack of shame or regret with somehow making the word less of an insult. As if the man's pride at having slept with a woman he calls a slut should make her feel good about herself... unless I'm mistaken.
Maybe I'm just feeling more giving than usual, but I read it more to mean that from that particular man's (and those like him) point of view, it was MEANT as less offensive than when women call another woman a slut, because he means it as a good thing.
I read it like that because he ended it by discussing the double standard which "allows" a man to believe it is more acceptable and a good thing, even though it certainly doesn't feel like it from our end.