- D_22,
do you really need to say anything at all? if 90% of gay guys don't fit that stereotype anyway, why do you feel like you need to specify that you don't?
if a guy's profile described your ideal man, if his picture was hot, but he didn't specify straight acting or masculine, would it honestly make you less likely to reply?
Some people, yes. For some folks, depending on if a guy is masc or fem, it can be a deal breaker.
A guy I was talking to for a while ended it because he was more into fem dudes and felt I was too masculine for his tastes despite being attracted to me.