The tinder thread

[grandunification]

Post stories, questions, and advice about Tinder dating.

 

[grandunification]

So, I had a girl in a decent conversation, we had some stuff in common. But, she hasn't responded to my last comment. Do I drop it and move on, or is there something I can say to reignite the conversation?

 

[sangheili90]

Never had a single response on tinder, sorry I cant give any advice but I personally think online dating is a complete waste of time.

Good luck, man

 

[Justin87]

1) Don't look for sex
2) Don't buy someone something hoping for sex
3) Ask a question about something they can respond to when replying to people. This will keep the conversation going.
4) Don't be more eager to tell them how awesome you are as you are to ask them about themselves.
5) After conversating for a bit and if you are interested in their personality, suggest to meet up for lunch somewhere and talk for a bit.

Keep that shirtless pic off your profile and happy tindering!

 

[paintergal]

My female perspective - move on. I'm not sure how you're initiating your conversation with women, or what topics you are talking about with her.

If your texts or messages on Tinder looks like these messages posted on http://straightwhiteboystexting.tumblr.com/, then you need to change your approaches with women because those texts/messages are not going to get you anywhere.

 

[paintergal]

I also need to add that the way men message women isn't just exclusive to Tinder, but many other dating sites too.

 

[malakos]

My story is pretty short: my Android device never allows me to download it.

 

[sangheili90]

My story is pretty short: my Android device never allows me to download it.

You weren't missing much, I decided to give it a shot again recently and it was "matching" me with girls from the other side of the country, despite the fact I had limited my range to 20 miles.

 

[wallyj84]

My female perspective - move on. I'm not sure how you're initiating your conversation with women, or what topics you are talking about with her.

If your texts or messages on Tinder looks like these messages posted on http://straightwhiteboystexting.tumblr.com/, then you need to change your approaches with women because those texts/messages are not going to get you anywhere.

lol Those messages are hilarious. I've never sent that kind of message and hate guys that do, but I do understand why they do it. If you're going to get rejected, which your probably will be online, it's better to be rejected for being an asshole than for being sincere.

 

[brinzaulsschwul]

App deleted as a total waste of space, prefer Hornet, Scruff and Romeo