The Tom Leykis Thread

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What a pathetic man. I just read up on his history, his ex wife filed assault charges against him...

I really hope that people do not actually believe in the filthy ramblings of this loser.

I've been shaking my head in disbelief the more I've been reading about him. He apparently has an audience. This summed it up for me perfectly! A Perfectly Cromulent Blog: Leykis My Ass...'So I was right about him lacking empathy for female victims of violence, but wrong about why. It's not because he's an ignorant publicity hound, but because he is, himself, a wife-beating scumbag."
 

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I've been shaking my head in disbelief the more I've been reading about him. He apparently has an audience. This summed it up for me perfectly! A Perfectly Cromulent Blog: Leykis My Ass...'So I was right about him lacking empathy for female victims of violence, but wrong about why. It's not because he's an ignorant publicity hound, but because he is, himself, a wife-beating scumbag."

I agree with you completely. I just read the blog, then unfortunately I continued to read the first comment that was posted after the blog. It's so sad that some individuals have this mind-set about the opposite sex. I'm sure a lot of us can moan and cry about the horrors we've faced dating, but the truth is, every person is an individual. Dating the same type of individual, with the same type of character can lead to the same miserable outcome over and over again. It's not about being male or female, it's about choosing our partners carefully.
 

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I used to listen to this guy on the radio years back.. A lot of women would call his show and say he's right.. That must mean something.. It doesn't mean every woman agrees.. Also, his tips are really directed for guys who want to get laid not necessarily for guys wanting love..

Treating women like shit doesn't mean anything harsh.. It means not doing exactly what she wants.. For example, if a woman tells me to call her at 7:00 pm, I'll call her closer to 8:00 pm.. When a woman asks me out, I tell her "it sounds great but let me get back to you on that".. When I invite women to the movies I always tell them the name of the flick I'm going to see and ask them if they'd like to come along.. Sometimes a few days later when we're actually going to the movie, they suggest we see something else.. That's when I say "I told you what movie I was going to see, it would be great if you came with me but if you don't want to see the movie then I understand".. They come, they always come.. Just don't fall for the switch they sometimes try to pull.. If you do everything they say, then you are being a pussy..

What I do find interesting is that I can understand women taking offense to what Tom says.. I have absolutely no idea why a man would be offended and upset..
 

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I used to listen to this guy on the radio years back.. A lot of women would call his show and say he's right.. That must mean something.. It doesn't mean every woman agrees.. Also, his tips are really directed for guys who want to get laid not necessarily for guys wanting love..

Treating women like shit doesn't mean anything harsh.. It means not doing exactly what she wants.. For example, if a woman tells me to call her at 7:00 pm, I'll call her closer to 8:00 pm.. When a woman asks me out, I tell her "it sounds great but let me get back to you on that".. When I invite women to the movies I always tell them the name of the flick I'm going to see and ask them if they'd like to come along.. Sometimes a few days later when we're actually going to the movie, they suggest we see something else.. That's when I say "I told you what movie I was going to see, it would be great if you came with me but if you don't want to see the movie then I understand".. They come, they always come.. Just don't fall for the switch they sometimes try to pull.. If you do everything they say, then you are being a pussy..

What I do find interesting is that I can understand women taking offense to what Tom says.. I have absolutely no idea why a man would be offended and upset..




I agree with this. I just think it's ridiculous that if I promise a girl I'll call her at 7:00, and then actually call her at 7:00 I somehow just lost my chances with her. I think it's crazy that if I help a girl with her homework and show her how to do the problems (i.e. not just let her copy) she will hate me. Also, I still don't withdraw any of my previous comments. Women are constantly seeking out of control men. Oh, and rich men. Basically, it's assholes and rich guys that women like. No wonder why there is so much divorce. Women choose the wrong men.
 

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just seems like a perverted Rush Limbaugh to me, even sounds like him. the conservative right has always felt threatened by women. Being outspoken douchbags seems to even qualify them for political races, so its no surprise that Leykis got this job. "only point of dating is to get laid, if your point is not to get laid, cancel it now." This makes his listeners even more pitiful. Reminds me of that Tom Cruise character in "Magnolia."
 
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Didn't there use to be a motto here "Don't put pussy on a pedestal?"

So why do men rage over threads like this? If the women were offended they are equally just and capable of defending themselves. Smells like White Night Fever again. *Shrugs*
 

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I do agree with grandunification's last comment. We live in a country where it is most unlikely a woman will approach a man, whether they want to or not. knowing this men might take the confident/aggressive approach, tell a woman what they really feel. Turns out this won't work either because it seems "sketchy." there is no real middle ground in the dating world, just a game of appeasement and fakery. One has to learn to fashion themselves as an abbreviated 2-dimensional cut-out with only snippets of a true personality. Feel free to open up later in the relationship? all that turns into is: "You have changed, you are not the same guy I met." Hey, now you know why I haven't had a relationship in 8 years. Never mind this site, I cannot even get more than a sentence out of most girls.
 
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I've never been a doormat. I'm just there for girls when they really seem to need me. I stand up for myself if they insult me. I don't lay down in the road for them. However, I've personally observed that women prefer a guy who cheats on them with lots of other chicks because she will see that he's in demand. The guy who is ready to call a girl his girlfriend and be exclusive with her is perceived as desperate. Women like guys who ditch them on dates, talk about the other girls they are screwing, never returns their calls (they're too busy screwing around -- and the girl loves thinking about this). Women hate loyal reliable nice guys. It's the jerk who treats them like crap that they are in love with. Charlie Sheen -- to name a stereotypical bad boy -- is a perfect example. Look at how many women are in love with him.

As far as money is concerned, everybody has to agree that rich famous guys get lots of hot chicks. There's nothing funnier than watching a woman marry a rich famous guy (Elin Woods for example) and then throw a fit when she finds out that he's cheating. Well, you shouldn't have married the most famous athlete in the world!


I don't agree with the guy you listen to, but you have a good opinion here. It's a realistic opinion talking about a cold world where chivalry is dead. Women are afraid to be courted these days. I once heard that girls look at you more if you have a girl under your arm, ignore you if you don't... Women want the bad guy that shows little interest and treats them like shit. I guess all females have the fantasy to turn an idiot into a prince, but its foolish because people do not change. It seems to be true that the only thing women are looking for is security. If a man can support them and buy them things, getting physically or mentally abused is a small sacrifice for what they really want. I suppose this comes from years of the entire female race being fucked in an area that isn't their pleasure spot? So in turn, I guess we could say that man made women this way?
 

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He seems designed for weak minded men and women. I think some women are attracted to money and jerks but there are other strong and smart women that are above all this rules bullshit. And games and pick up tricks wont work on them because they are smarter than that. These are the women I date.
 

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He seems designed for weak minded men and women. I think some women are attracted to money and jerks but there are other strong and smart women that are above all this rules bullshit. And games and pick up tricks wont work on them because they are smarter than that. These are the women I date.


do you play baseball because you have a good eye. Seems like the female you at talking about is extremely rare. even the good ones that are not superficial are usually pre-determined to play a certain set piece of games. Most of the time it takes a true con man to get by these initial tests.
 

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They're not common, but I don't they are extremely rare. They're just not at the same places all the other women are. I live in Hollywood so the assholes (men and women) are in overabundance here and it can feel like everyone is superficial and fake. It's just not true and it was great when I was finally able to peer behind that curtain and explore a little more.
 

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Women hate loyal reliable nice guys. It's the jerk who treats them like crap that they are in love with. Charlie Sheen -- to name a stereotypical bad boy -- is a perfect example. Look at how many women are in love with him.

You have it exactly backwards. The women that want to be with Charlie Sheen are golddiggers and idiots. That's who he attracts. Being a jerk toward women will score you only the women that hate themselves. Maybe you're OK with that, but don't generalize that all or even many women will fall for it.


Also, his tips are really directed for guys who want to get laid not necessarily for guys wanting love..

The big flaw in this idea is that it's far more work to keep searching for new women to use for sex than it is to convince one woman to have sex with you repeatedly. These guys probably tell themselves that men naturally want to fuck as many women as possible and are only fulfilling their genetic destiny. But they're really just wasting a lot of time.


What I do find interesting is that I can understand women taking offense to what Tom says.. I have absolutely no idea why a man would be offended and upset..

Actually, I'm most offended that people don't see through his act. Every broadcaster adopts a personality he or she thinks will get ratings, and therefore money and fame. Why does he have more credibility just because he has a platform for speaking? The only thing he has that the misogynist guy you knew in college doesn't is that he's been able to find someone to pay him to say it.


do you play baseball because you have a good eye. Seems like the female you at talking about is extremely rare. even the good ones that are not superficial are usually pre-determined to play a certain set piece of games. Most of the time it takes a true con man to get by these initial tests.

They aren't really "tests" most of the time. They're usually just the way both men and women act that -- intentionally or not -- attract or repel others. If a woman is too high-maintenance for you, then she'll just find a guy who doesn't think she is. The same way women see your behavior and decide they aren't that desperate.
 

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hey, Boblee, maybe you didn't read my post. I thought this character Leykis deserves to be shot. All I was saying is that I can relate to a few of the things the POSTERS said negatively toward women. I actually get along with females better than guys, but THERE are games that have been built into woman as WELL as men. For example, one of my past gf's explained to me how her mother would urge her to go on dates just as long as the guy was paying, didn't matter on the guy. A lot of mothers/fathers urge their daughters to meet a doctor or a lawyer. I don't remember any of my parents advising me to meet a female with a well paying career.

Once again, don't pigeon hole me into unification's group, the basis for this thread is complete ignorant nonsense. LIKE I SAID before, Leykis reminds me of a fucked up mix of Rush Limbaugh and Tom Cruise's character from "Magnolia." I do not agree with him, but it doesn't mean I cannot RELATE to unification's issues with females, they are NOT TOTALLY IMAGINARY. And if YOU have never been across a female who played a game with you, then GOOD LUCK TO YOU, you must be only meeting the great ones!

The saying, "nice guys finish last" is not something I am pulling out of my ass.
 

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tom ignores the fact that womn might actually get together cause....news flash.....they like each other and enjoy each others company.

i have had plenty of luck with chicks.....at every stage in life, hs, college athelete, broke loser, broke med student, lost shiftless soul, doctor........


why not cause i was a jerk....cause i was a damn good time to be around!!!!!!

from time to time a self absorbed jerk, other times a edger to please puppy...depended on life phase and dynamic of relationship.....but always girls came around because of a combo of some attaction, fun and sexual chemistry

guys stop thinking women are some strange creature to be lured, tricked and figured out....good chance they think just like you (with some quirky differences that make the world go round....think ying yang)


AND TO ALL THE NICE GUYS.....
1.a nice guy is not some guy who gives a girl everything she wants in the hope she will be tricked into sleeping with you

2. a nice guy is not a guy who poses as a friend to a women who is oviously not into you, attempts to wear her down and latter date

if you are nice from the heart and true to your self you really wont even notice how nice you are being

yes girls love a rebel.....everyone does...even in the bible (think prodical son)......


AND TO ALL THE BAD BOYS
1. learning to be a jackass from a fat old bitter man does not a rebel make

2. calling a girl weeks latter when you really want to call today does not make you james dean........doing what you want does

and lastly i wont say all but alot of girls are real good at reading us, they spend lost of time thinking about relationships, are very intuitive.......most will be able to smell a phoney like a FART IN A CAR
 

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Didn't there use to be a motto here "Don't put pussy on a pedestal?"

So why do men rage over threads like this? If the women were offended they are equally just and capable of defending themselves. Smells like White Night Fever again. *Shrugs*


What is White Night Fever? Has it anything to do with the Midsummer celebrations in the Northern hemisphere? :confused:

on topic--
Someone convicted of domestic violence does not seem to me a good source for relationship advice.
 

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What is White Night Fever? Has it anything to do with the Midsummer celebrations in the Northern hemisphere? :confused:

on topic--
Someone convicted of domestic violence does not seem to me a good source for relationship advice.
I love abusing the dictionary! White Knights (I missed the "k"!) are men who defend the so-called-honour of women above and beyond the call or sanity! So I just jumped to a more ridiculous conclusion...:biggrin1: