I haven't really read through the thread because it sounds like it gets crazy. But from what I've seen, I'll say this. If a woman, or hell- a man as well, pursues relations with an asshole/bitch, then 9 times out of 10, you're looking at security issues with that man or woman. And I'm sure all of you have known the really hot, sweet girl who dates the asshole who cheats on her and treats her like shit- and when you ask her why she does it, she immediately believes that she can't do better. That's your red flag right there! Why some guys date crazy assholes and bitches- same reason applies! They're too afraid to lose this piece of shit and have nothing!
Some people would rather have shit than nothing. And the fucked up part about it, when the shit hits the fan and their world comes crashing down, they act as if they don't know why or what happened. But it was all apparent and in their faces the entire time, they just chose not to see it. Some of you need to stop trying to pursue relationships with other people and start trying to pursue them with yourselves for a bit.
I'm not trying to tell you how to lead your life or what's best for you. But if you go from relationship to relationship to relationship, and all of them are shit, then maybe you need to sit your ass down some where and try something new. Get to know you, and truly like yourself. After about 6 months to a year, you'll have an understanding of what you will and will not tolerate. And the moment someone starts with any kind of bullshit, you're out the door. No second thoughts. I love people, I really do. One of my best friends tell me that I throw people away too easily. And it's not that I do, it's just that I put a price on people. I already know that I'm priceless, and to each and every single one of you, you should be priceless as well. And with me putting prices on people, I ask myself "is this motherfucker worth investing in?" If you even have to ask that question, GOOD BYE! You don't have time for that craziness. You should know that anyone in your life is right for you, is positive for you, and is there because you want them there, not because you need them there. And if you ever have to question that, then they need to go.
Okay, I'm done. Sorry about that. I get a little mouthy after I've smoked. Enjoy your day!