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No, this is no thread about the collections of sex toys the female and male members here own.
I'm aiming at the subject of beefing up sex; using self-found ways that make known positions and sexual practices hotter and more satisfying, slight changes to a position that increases stimulation, or extras you give with blow jobs/licking that makes them more pleasant for your partner, male or female.
I have some tricks to personalize common sex positions. For example, I usually do some humming when I give my lover a blowjob, usually towards the end. To most, that's something new, and they like the sensations, I literally feel them flinch and writh when I start it, and can feel their excitement rise dramatically. Since I'm not a facial specialist or swallowing girl, I have to take care at that point not to trigger the orgasm before he's where I want him.
Other tricks that I apply involve my fingernails. I don't always dig them in completely, at some places that might be inappropriate and rather painful, but some light scraping can do wonders, on his balls, the back of his thighs, on the shaft of his penis. During foreplay, this applied to hands and forearms can be an arousing technique, talking from my own experience.
So, what things have you found through your sexual career that beefs up your sex? Some sharing would be very good here.
PS: Please excuse the newbie style. I'm too much on the logical brain part, formulating isn't my strongest point.
I'm aiming at the subject of beefing up sex; using self-found ways that make known positions and sexual practices hotter and more satisfying, slight changes to a position that increases stimulation, or extras you give with blow jobs/licking that makes them more pleasant for your partner, male or female.
I have some tricks to personalize common sex positions. For example, I usually do some humming when I give my lover a blowjob, usually towards the end. To most, that's something new, and they like the sensations, I literally feel them flinch and writh when I start it, and can feel their excitement rise dramatically. Since I'm not a facial specialist or swallowing girl, I have to take care at that point not to trigger the orgasm before he's where I want him.
Other tricks that I apply involve my fingernails. I don't always dig them in completely, at some places that might be inappropriate and rather painful, but some light scraping can do wonders, on his balls, the back of his thighs, on the shaft of his penis. During foreplay, this applied to hands and forearms can be an arousing technique, talking from my own experience.
So, what things have you found through your sexual career that beefs up your sex? Some sharing would be very good here.
PS: Please excuse the newbie style. I'm too much on the logical brain part, formulating isn't my strongest point.