The Top Ten Things You Should Know About Penis Size

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  1. D_Prudence_Admonition_Drightits

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    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]STOP: Before you say oh here we go again. I found this article on a Clitoral Sex page. It was written by a man but putting a spin to the topic with a female in mind.

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    A male’s genitals generally get as big as they are going to get by 14.9 years of age, on average. Late bloomers will mostly have caught up by age 17 or 18. 90% of penises measure between 5-7 inches. The rest of us fall just outside that range. There currently aren’t any penis enlargement methods that are both safe and effective, so your best bet is learning to become comfortable with what you have and stop obsessing about penis size.

    2. The truth is that size rarely matters. Most women you talk to will say that size doesn't matter to them at all. There are some size queens out there who say size does matter to them, but the truth is they are relatively few and far between.

    3. Penis size is definitely more of a concern to men than women. In one survey, men thought the average penis size was 10 inches. Women thought it was 4 inches. In another survey, men thought that penis size was the 3rd most important feature for a man. In the same survey, women rated it only 9th. Most generally, when I have seen women speak about penis size, it’s either that they want to know how to get their man to quit obsessing about his size, or they complain that their man is too big and hurts them during intercourse.

    4. Stop worrying about the dimensions of your penis. Mind-blowing sex is about everything BUT size and measuring. Mind-blowing sex is about being completely naked and vulnerable with your lover - physically, emotionally, spiritually, and psychologically. Honestly, you’d be doing yourself a huge favor to focus on things other than your penis – things like your character, your willingness to please, your ability to communicate, and your capacity to feel, to connect, and to love, just to name a few.

    5. Flaccid size has nothing to do with erection size. You could have a flaccid penis on the small side that grows into an erect penis that’s on the large size.

    6. The differences in size that are apparent when you look at a group of flaccid penises become less apparent when these same penises grow erect. In other words, smaller penises tend to grow proportionately larger than bigger penises do during the process of erection.

    7. The correct way to measure the penis is to place a ruler along the top side of your penis. Measure from the base of the shaft to the tip of the head. Don’t push the ruler into your gut or stretch your penis if you want an accurate measurement.

    8. Having a firmer erection will increase your size, so giving up alcohol, smoking, and caffeine, and getting regular aerobic exercise will all help.

    9. Some experts claim that you can gain an inch in visible penis length by losing 35 pounds. You don’t actually gain an inch, mind you - you can just see an extra inch that used to be hidden by fatty tissue.

    10. Sex isn’t penis dependent. We can make love with our entire selves. Trying to make love with only a penis is like trying to write calligraphy with a thick crayon. Once you let this sink in, it will help you let go of your anxieties about size, stamina, and performance, too. When a man knows that he can please his lady regardless of the size (or even presence) of his erection, he can be completely focused and in the moment, rather than focusing on his insecurities and perceived inadequacies. This makes him a better, more confident lover.
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  2. D_Prudence_Admonition_Drightits

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    Okay now here is the point where I wait for SUPERLARGE. :tongue:
     
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    I wonder if smoking has any effect on stunting penis growth from an early age when things are still developing, in much the same way they say that smoking stunts growth in height.

    Oh yeah, interesting article cinnamon. :biggrin1:
     
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    All these are true and good points, and I hope that your posting it helps any guys that are stuck with feelings of inadequacy. Of course, at a place such as LPSG, it would seem like every male here is obsessed with the size of his cock, but that is because the nature of the community here puts an emphasis on the size of the penis. I think that many of us know and recognize the above points but we choose to talk about penis size here because that's what the place is for.

    I don't ponder the size of my cock on a daily basis, and I'm wouldn't say that I'm obsessed with it at all. However, I do think about penises, mine included, when I'm visiting LPSG, because that's what it's about. While I'm sure there are many guys here obsessed with the size of their penises, it's important to remember that the subject of LPSG could give the impression that everyone here is obsessed with cock size. Some of us just want to share experiences and discuss a subject that is difficult to talk about in other circumstances.
     
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    All is ok . the fact is tat is impossible increase penis size at least economical way and safe .
    So concerning to such point ,think the best investigation in the case a man were affected by such point of penis lenght and girth , is how to learn and which are the best cientifics steps of or for HOW TO LIVE WITH AN SMALL PENIS , and want not to died for such problem ( or better say in other words by reason of women who are going to use it and their penis ideas ) .
    Because it is an irreversible men 's problem , with out solution today and a lot of people want to make bussines in internet
     
  6. D_Prudence_Admonition_Drightits

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    True ArmyMule - I am mainly posting this for guys that are stuck with feelings of inadequacy. I think you can tell that about how many questions are asked about "will my average size cock do the trick".
    You may not ponder your size but many on here do, and where do they come to post....right here in the Women's Issues. So I am giving you this from a woman's point of view. If it helps all fine. Yes, big cocks are beautiful to look at, I will not deny that but guys must know that should not be the only determining factor when trying to learn how to please a female partner.


    - This is why I posted this under women's issues and not the other discussion groups.
     
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    Thanks for the reality check, Cinnamon!

    I love having a bigger-than-normal cock. I just flat-out like my cock, period. Being here is about making myself happy.
     
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    I think what underminds the confidence of many men is that there are sizequeens who will say that a small or even average cock will not satisfy them no matter how good technique the man has. Because the sizequeen thinks if it doesn't touch the walls its useless.
     
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    And shall I add, I enjoy looking at photos of you making yourself happy.:biggrin1: OOOO LA LA!:redface:
     
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    This seems like an odd inclusion for an article otherwise stressing that size doesn't matter.
     
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    God bless ya, babe!
     
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    For that I applaud you... Like many guys, I get rankled at the male stereotyping and lavish eye-rolling that often happens if anyone tries to talk about penis size. It's often assumed that all men are obsessed with cock size, and so I felt the need to say something about that.
     
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    Now I don't mind hearing guys talk about penis size. I rather enjoy it. I would not be here if I did not.

    It is when some men act like that is all that is needed in the bed; that makes me get a twitch. "Bow to me woman you should be glad I have a big cock."
    It takes so much more than that. At least for me- massages, kissing, licking, different positions, foreplay, afterglow....:rolleyes:
     
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    I couldn't care less what women think about penis size. So what?
     
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    There goes me salty dog...WHAT SIDE IT'S HANGING ON TODAY MR. CRABS?:biggrin1:
     
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    For some women size does matter, but I think emotional security and an emotional life would probably win over an ego swelled dick head. You think?

    Sometimes Mr Crabs tries to hard to be a curmudgeon.
     
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    Do you care about what men think about breast size? Or what the man you are with thinks about breast size?

    Right and rather tumescent :wink:
     
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    No, never posted the question, now did I? But I did respond to guys who simply wanted to know. I still got my confidence Crabs. There is something and someone out there for everybody.
    Sometime you feel like a nut....sometime you don't
    Life goes on Crabs...life goes on. I got big breast and not about to reduce them because one person may not like them. Nope, nope got to keep on living dude. :cool: And men with all penis sizes should too. PEACE.
     
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    Every time it rains, it rains penis from heaven
    Don't you know each cloud contains penis from heaven?
    You'll find your fortune's fallin' all over the town
    Be sure that your umbrella is upside down

    Trade them for a package of sunshine and flowers
    If you want the things you love, you must have showers
    So, when you hear it thunder, don't run under a tree
    There'll be penis from heaven for you and me

    :biggrin1:
     
  20. D_Prudence_Admonition_Drightits

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    Dems be beautiful words....Tito bring me a tissue. :biggrin1::wink:
     
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