I think this should be posted here, unsure.. but here goes... So my GF's friend has decided to get married in Mexico. *To save money. Here is the catch.... This has caused a HUGE rift between my GF and I. I am refusing to go to Mexico based on the advice from a close friend that owns a travel agency. To quote her: "I have canceled all my clients trips to Mexico, it isn't safe to go down there" -This only after one of her clients son's was murdered by mexican police. So my GF is really upset that I put my foot down on this one. She says I am "Crazy" for not wanting to go. She isn't even IN the wedding, just a guest of one of her "BEST FRIENDS". Here is my stance. 1. in THIS economy when everyone is BROKE, *I know I am... who the fuck plans a destination wedding and doesn't pay for their guests? The whole trip is going to cost around $1700 and I called the hotel, and they told me that we "Must stay in the confines of the hotel at all times, and not leave the hotel compound" FUCK THAT SHIT. I feel it is very selfish of this girl to plan a wedding that people have to pay to attend, just to feed her fucking ego. 2. Mexico is a warzone right now. I have kids. I am not putting my life in any undue danger to go somewhere that is unsafe. So what do you think? Am I being unreasonable?