The truth about a tiny dick

[deleted1138933]

For the last time, learn how this language works. If you do not qualify a group, then your statement includes the entire group. "Birds have feathers" doesn't imply "some birds" it implies all birds. "Women want big cocks" does not imply some women, or only women you've talked with, it implies all women. As long as you continue to ignore this important language distinction, you'll continue to annoy and draw criticism.

Your last sentence makes no sense whatsoever. The context of everything you wrote before it was women. Then you wrote about "they" being "hung". Who is "they"?

Do you see how your writing is fucked up?

This language and all language does not live in a vacuum on its own, it is shaped, formed, impacted, influenced, and functions within cultural standards, norms and understandings. It is, or should be, generally understood that generalized statements are not absolute. It is taken for granted that there may be exceptions. When one communicates with other said speakers of the language, it is expected that they are versed in these aforementioned factors. When trends are observed and communicated, general statements are made to reflect those experiences:

“Doctors recommend . . .”
“Economists are predicting . . .”
“Young college graduates are finding . . .”

De we assume that there are exceptions and that not all mentioned are included? Of course we should. Do we expect every single individual to be personally named and referred to to make the point? Of course not.

It is the responsibility of those stating to be versed in such language to know and understand those language subtleties.

All birds have feathers. What a about this?

And to my last sentence, “they” refers to the men in this site. Again, subtleties.

 

[sodominsane]

Haven't really had thebwh.

General statements are assumed to have exceptions and exclusions. It is taken that it does not include 100% of everything at any time. If it does not pertain to you then you do not need to worry about it.

I have not been following conversation all the way ...but I find a lot of truth in this statement...if I can make no generalizations....it's difficult to have a conversation....

 

[Bittydrew]

So honestly having a tiny dick sucks. I don't understand why all the hung guys here say oh it doesn't matter. In reality it matters so much. I've had so many guys tell me I'm inferior, I should be a cukold, my dick is ugly as fuck. I know dick size actually means repsect among guys. Let's be honest here. If you had a dick like mine how would you feel? View attachment 450734 View attachment 450735 View attachment 450736

I would make love to you and your cock.....

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Haven't really had thebwh.


I have not been following conversation all the way ...but I find a lot of truth in this statement...if I can make no generalizations....it's difficult to have a conversation....

"Women want big cock" is an unqualified statement. In the context harry uses, he has never stated any exceptions at all. So his backpedal to it being "not everyone" and suddenly a "generalization" is utter BS.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I'd take small over big any day. I want to he fucked hard and not get internal damage. Well and external damage.

 

[1352661]

From my physical and sexual experience with women I tend to run into a lot of size queens. I’m African American so maybe women EXPECT me to be large so when they see I’m not... it’s kind of a let down... I guess.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

I'd take small over big any day. I want to he fucked hard and not get internal damage. Well and external damage.

Isn't it just a little bit cool to know that, in Harry's world, you don't exist?

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

From my physical and sexual experience with women I tend to run into a lot of size queens. I’m African American so maybe women EXPECT me to be large so when they see I’m not... it’s kind of a let down... I guess.

But you still have sex, and enjoy it? You still try to have sexual relationships with women, right? The general discussion for several pages has led to the revelation that this one guy possibly has no actual experience with a physical relationship with women. He's so utterly fixated on the mistaken notion that no woman would happily stay with a guy who isn't hung, that he doesn't even try. He's being cagey about it, but that's where it seems to be.

I can only imagine what broke him this badly. There's a whole world of people to experience, a match (or two or twenty) for everyone. Fear of rejection should never be a reason to give up. Especially over penis size.

 

[deleted1138933]

Isn't it just a little bit cool to know that, in Harry's world, you don't exist?

So she is one in 3billion

 

[deleted1138933]

But you still have sex, and enjoy it? You still try to have sexual relationships with women, right? The general discussion for several pages has led to the revelation that this one guy possibly has no actual experience with a physical relationship with women. He's so utterly fixated on the mistaken notion that no woman would happily stay with a guy who isn't hung, that he doesn't even try. He's being cagey about it, but that's where it seems to be.

I can only imagine what broke him this badly. There's a whole world of people to experience, a match (or two or twenty) for everyone. Fear of rejection should never be a reason to give up. Especially over penis size.

The point is not whether or not the guy will enjoy it, ir if the woman would stay. It is whether and if the woman will get the ultimate pleasure from you, will always be comparing you to other bigger guys she has been with and you always not measure up, if she will always be wanting longing and missing more, always ranking you less than or second best, always wanting someone else, and staying with you for the right reason - because she actually wants and desires you, not what you provide her. What kind if relationship would you be in like that?

Again, you speak from a privileged stance, never being put down because of your size. If it were rejection for some other reason there would be no problem, it is not you they are rejecting, it is most likely a circumstance that can be fixed.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

So she is one in 3billion

EVERY woman is 1 in 3 billion. Everyone has their own opinion. They're all unique people.

Even here in this "big dick site" there are plenty of women who don't give a rat's ass about big dicks. You speak for them by twisting any wording into an AH-HAHH moment, and when none exists, you call them liars or as you did here, a gross outlier. You reject statistics in favor of your anecdote.

Again, exactly how many sexual relationships have you had in 42 years? Not sex with a hooker, or a drunken 1-night stand, but sex on more than one occasion with another woman, with dating, conversation, the whole kit 'n kaboodle. I think after all this time you need to be clear about what you base your outrageously bizarre opinion.

 

[deleted1138933]

But you still have sex, and enjoy it? You still try to have sexual relationships with women, right? The general discussion for several pages has led to the revelation that this one guy possibly has no actual experience with a physical relationship with women. He's so utterly fixated on the mistaken notion that no woman would happily stay with a guy who isn't hung, that he doesn't even try. He's being cagey about it, but that's where it seems to be.

I can only imagine what broke him this badly. There's a whole world of people to experience, a match (or two or twenty) for everyone. Fear of rejection should never be a reason to give up. Especially over penis size.

Plus he is probably not small either, just not as big as expected. Not the same as small

 

[deleted1138933]

EVERY woman is 1 in 3 billion. Everyone has their own opinion. They're all unique people.

Even here in this "big dick site" there are plenty of women who don't give a rat's ass about big dicks. You speak for them by twisting any wording into an AH-HAHH moment, and when none exists, you call them liars or as you did here, a gross outlier. You reject statistics in favor of your anecdote.

Again, exactly how many sexual relationships have you had in 42 years? Not sex with a hooker, or a drunken 1-night stand, but sex on more than one occasion with another woman, with dating, conversation, the whole kit 'n kaboodle. I think after all this time you need to be clear about what you base your outrageously bizarre opinion.

No, in that area, she is 1 in 3 billion. Never have come across any other woman that states she likes and prefers small. I have not seen come across any one else. I have not called any woman here a liar nor have used that word. I merely read what they state. Statistics do not reflect reality, as you stated its a small portion of the 3 billion. Ive stayed it, none. From what I have personally heard, witnessed and experienced from them.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

@HarryPalmas Stop trying to put distance between the thread and my question. This is the second time I've asked you, and you've ignored it. For someone who acts the expert on "reality" regarding women's sexual desire, we should know where you think you have a basis for judgment at all:

Again, exactly how many sexual relationships have you had in 42 years? Not sex with a hooker, or a drunken 1-night stand, but sex on more than one occasion with another woman, with dating, conversation, the whole kit 'n kaboodle. How many long term (over 1 year) sexual relationships have you been in? I think after all this time you need to be clear about what you base your outrageously bizarre opinion.

 

[deleted1138933]

@HarryPalmas Stop trying to put distance between the thread and my question. This is the second time I've asked you, and you've ignored it. For someone who acts the expert on "reality" regarding women's sexual desire, we should know where you think you have a basis for judgment at all:

Again, exactly how many sexual relationships have you had in 42 years? Not sex with a hooker, or a drunken 1-night stand, but sex on more than one occasion with another woman, with dating, conversation, the whole kit 'n kaboodle. How many long term (over 1 year) sexual relationships have you been in? I think after all this time you need to be clear about what you base your outrageously bizarre opinion.

AGAIN!!! None

 

[deleted1138933]

@HarryPalmas Stop trying to put distance between the thread and my question. This is the second time I've asked you, and you've ignored it. For someone who acts the expert on "reality" regarding women's sexual desire, we should know where you think you have a basis for judgment at all:

Again, exactly how many sexual relationships have you had in 42 years? Not sex with a hooker, or a drunken 1-night stand, but sex on more than one occasion with another woman, with dating, conversation, the whole kit 'n kaboodle. How many long term (over 1 year) sexual relationships have you been in? I think after all this time you need to be clear about what you base your outrageously bizarre opinion.

None. I have answered before, how difficult is it to understand? I have heard women’s comments on what they like, prefer, idealize, lust, and desire. Why would I expose and rusk myself to rejection and humiliation when I already heard directly from them that I am not their ideal type of what they want, expect and desire

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

None. I have answered before, how difficult is it to understand? I have heard women’s comments on what they like, prefer, idealize, lust, and desire. Why would I expose and rusk myself to rejection and humiliation when I already heard directly from them that I am not their ideal type of what they want, expect and desire

Because nobody is anyone's "ideal type".

Because love.

You have no basis whatsoever to comment on what women want. None. Zero.

Your cowardice keeps you from any experiences that would give you real insight into relationships. You can't tell anyone anything about dicks when you have zero experience beyond idle chatter.

Holy fuck, 42 and won't "risk it"? You truly are wasting a life. C'mon Dude, get out there, get some life under your belt. Even bad relationships can be better than none, and what if you strike gold? The rest of us assholes have been doing it. We have scars. So fucking what? It took me decades of a bad marriage, screwing around, to find the love of my life. I'm happier than a pig in shit. But I wasn't before. I've been dumped, been rejected, been mocked. Too big is no different than anything else that's "too".

Drop this, man. Go get a girlfriend. And stop shitting on people who know far more than you can even imagine.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

After selling thousands of insertable sex toys for years I can tell you maybe 1 in 100 customers would purchase something over 6 inches. The big toys weren't big sellers. Many came in to buy a vibrator for their clit bc penis wasn't getting them off. Size doesn't matter when most women orgasm from the clitoris which is on the outside of the body.

 

[deleted1138933]

Because nobody is anyone's "ideal type".

Because love.

You have no basis whatsoever to comment on what women want. None. Zero.

Your cowardice keeps you from any experiences that would give you real insight into relationships. You can't tell anyone anything about dicks when you have zero experience beyond idle chatter.

Holy fuck, 42 and won't "risk it"? You truly are wasting a life. C'mon Dude, get out there, get some life under your belt. Even bad relationships can be better than none, and what if you strike gold? The rest of us assholes have been doing it. We have scars. So fucking what? It took me decades of a bad marriage, screwing around, to find the love of my life. I'm happier than a pig in shit. But I wasn't before. I've been dumped, been rejected, been mocked. Too big is no different than anything else that's "too".

Drop this, man. Go get a girlfriend. And stop shitting on people who know far more than you can even imagine.

Nobody will be perfect, granted, but they do fit their ideal type or meet most of the criteria.

Love comes love goes, hot is hot regardless. Desire is desire.

I have strong basis because I have heard and experienced first hand on what women state they desire and what its like to be on the other side.

Yeah, maybe so, but the rest of you assholes do not have anything to risk. You are never going to be put down for your manhood, or lack thereof. You will never know what its like. Even if a guy is rejected for being too big, never going to be put down for it.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

My estranged husband would talk about how normal dicks are so lucky. They can go deep, they can go shallow, they can be deep throated, do anal. All the things in 21 years my husband and I were unable to do. It sucked for is both being generally mismatched in our body parts. I've been torn so many times. It runs sex when it hurts. Vaginas come in all sizes. I have a micro sized vagina that needs a dick that won't tear it up like childbirth.