The truth about a tiny dick

[deleted1046538]

I have a pretty small penis. It seems like a lot of guys might be turned off by it, I've found quite a few that are interested in more than the size of my tool. Plenty of guys even like it little. Idunno, it's what I've got to work with so I make the most of it!

When I sleep with other men im dominant and prefer a submissive with a small dick. Actually the smaller the better.

 

[deleted1046538]

If a gay man is a bottom, how important is his penis size to his partner?

Exactly, I'm a dominant top and I get off on being with subs that have tiny dicks.

 

[wallyj84]

Exactly, I'm a dominant top and I get off on being with subs that have tiny dicks.

You don't feel like it is demeaning to be sexual with a small cocks?

 

[deleted1046538]

You don't feel like it is demeaning to be sexual with a small cocks?

Absolutely not. It turns me on and like I said I'm the alpha male top and I don't blow them or anything. Just dominate them totally. My favorite is a twenty something twink real thin n cute. With a super tiny dick. The smaller the better. It's their niche. They have to be loved and fulfilled like everyone else and with such tiny dicks they can't really do much except be bred by a able top.

 

[hypolimnas]

It's (not sad) just nature to discriminate and ostricize inferiorly endowed men. It's actually pretty hard to believe natural selection and human preference hasn't breed tiny cocked men into extinction by now.

guys with small cocks can still have hot asses

 

[rtg]

I'm slightly larger than you, and women I've been with - even size queens who've had and loved larger - say that while bigger is better, cock size is not everything - by a long way. Trust me on this, bro. My current gf loved her ex's cock, it gave her earth shattering vaginal & a spot orgasms she doesn't receive with my small dick, and yet she laughed (a genuine belly laugh) in my face when I asked her whether my dick size had 'taken points off' my overall attractiveness. We small dick guys have to move on from this shit - women just aren't into dick size as much as we guys are!

Touché! Couldn't have said it better myself.

 

[wide9]

When the topic of dick size lifts it's head, people usually begin a discussion about it's placement in a vagina. Although valid, it is just one part of penises appreciation.

There are men who crave a huge, meaty cock simply because they believe it makes them a better, more Manly and sexual person, even if they have no possible vaginally outlet on the horizon.

There are men who have no vaginally orientation, but really believe a big cock is best for everyone.

So, smaller dicks being a reality, it doesn't me an they are totally without value. I can't imagine a healthy man wanting to remove his small dick because it's not large. Something is immensely better more appealing than nothing.

 

[wide9]

When the topic of dick size lifts it's head, people usually begin a discussion about it's use for and placement in a vagina. Although valid, it is just one part of penis appreciation.

There are straight men who crave a huge, meaty cock simply because they believe it makes them a better, more manly, and sexual person; even if they have no possible outlet for a vagin on the horizon.

There are big and gay men who have a diminished vaginal orientation, but really believe a big cock is best for everyone.

So, back to the thread, although smaller dicks are a reality, it doesn't mean they are totally without value.

Frankly, I can't imagine a healthy man wanting to remove his small dick because it's not large. "Something" is immensely more appealing than "nothing"


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[wide9]

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[wappingite]

The issue of size and men (especially gays men) is a complicated thing. Everything in society points to 'size does matter' even though many will then assuage those who lack size with platitudes. It's a contradiction. A big cock connotes status in modern society. It's the same thing as wealth or looks. There's always going to be someone who has 'more'. The question is, do you let it consume you?

That said. People value other attributes besides cock size like personality and interests. We don't live in a single variable world except for the most obsessive of size queens. Find someone who values you for whom you are first.

Anecdotally, some of my best fuck buds have had very small cocks, and some of the worst have been hugely hung. Fantasy and reality are often inverses. I fascinated by cock size but am aware enough to realise that's very far down the list in terms of clicking with people sexually and emotionally. So, going back to my original point, it matters and it doesn't.

Chin up OP.

 

[sixtytrolls]

most women I've been with don't say it outright, but all too often, I've been with one who brings up the story of how she's been with a small dick and said it couldn't work in the long term but that she'd never let on to the guy after she dumped him. although it makes me feel pretty smug, I must say it also makes me real grateful I don't have a small dick. In most cases the women who said this weren't size queens, just passing comment on size.

but nobody is immune from insecurity. I went out with one girl I really liked. after a few weeks of sex, she let on that she had been with a guy who was much larger than me. I hadn't asked her, and assumed she was telling me because she didn't like too big, but it turned out she had enjoyed sex with him. I couldn't get that out of my mind and ended up dumping her, I didn't want to feel I was being compared to someone else every time we fucked.

so small guys should know - there is always someone bigger, someone better, someone thicker, someone longer, even for endowed guys. Women might snigger once they done with you, but if you show some passion and skills, and if there's more to you than your dick, you're going to snag a woman who is worth it eventually. just keep fucking, practice makes perfect yo.

 

[Smaller Than the Rest]

You're still bigger than me, I'm not even 4" hard

 

[LilJock]

Great post!

most women I've been with don't say it outright, but all too often, I've been with one who brings up the story of how she's been with a small dick and said it couldn't work in the long term but that she'd never let on to the guy after she dumped him. although it makes me feel pretty smug, I must say it also makes me real grateful I don't have a small dick.

As a guy who's hung like a chipmunk, I've had my share of women who've let me know in one way or another that I didn't measure up to their expectations in the cock department. No big deal. I've got enough other things working for me.

But I've always been curious (bothered?) what some of them may have said to girlfriends or guys they later went with about how I'm hung. Over the years I've heard a few second-hand accounts of comments made by chicks about my prowess. Yes, some were along the lines mentioned above, but, surprisingly, many were along the lines "yes, small, but, what the heck, he's a hunk!"

Knowing how some women talk about that kind of stuff can be a bummer sometimes. I played football in college. Let's say some co-eds made a hobby of screwing football players (and other athletes). I probably didn't avail myself of their company as much as I could have for fear some disaster might get back to my buddies and I'd be the laughing-stock of the locker room.

On the other hand, your remark that hearing girls mention how a guy's small cock couldn't work for her made you "feel pretty smug. . . and grateful [you] don't have a small dick" was still pretty much a turn on to hear!

 

[sixtytrolls]

@LilJock - I don't think all small size men take the same healthy attitude of their size. In my group of friends is a guy who is short in both height and size and he has taken some mighty ribbing from the rest of us for many years (I'm in my mid thirties and four of us from college have stuck together quite closely over the years). If ever there was a spare moment between us friends, when a joke was needed to chill things out, it would be at his expense. because he laughed along we assumed he was in on it and it was just bros having a laugh. that was until his previous girlfriend, who is close friends with another friend's sister, let on that he was actually badly traumatized by years of verbal abuse, not just from us but from society in general, and that she eventually split from him not because of his size but because of his attitude about his size (not sure about his erect size, not sure I ever want to know lol, but flaccid it looks like a chipolata). that was an eye opener.

truthfully, it hadn't occurred to me that he was taking it personally until then and had a massive complex about it. we slacked off him after that but guys will be guys and everytime one of us wants to have a dig, we hit him where it hurts, on height and cock size. he doesn't hold back from pointing out my flaws (red hair) or another friend who is fat, so we figure it's all good. my point of view is that who gives a fuck what guys say about your cock size, if you're a straight guy. its the women's views you should be concerned about, and I think theres enough evidence here and elsewhere that most girls aint going to have a problem if its at least big enough to feel and if you do other stuff that makes them cum.

 

[Dave K]

Exactly, I'm a dominant top and I get off on being with subs that have tiny dicks.

Well man, ur huge. It's almost like it's nature that u do that to tiny dicks

 

[cockboiii]

Guys. I mean you can say all the nice things you want, but seriously men hook up with me one time and I never hear from them again. Most of the time they just look bored while I jack off my little dick. They almost never want to suck it. I mean look at it. Let's just be honest here. Having a cock like that and being gay completely sucks. Plus half the time it doesn't even get very hard. That is a normal sized 6 inch dildo. How would you feel if you had a cock like that?

 

[Serpentlike]

Many of my friends who have small cocks have been with more women than me. Women care about more than cock size 90% of the time. Us guys are another story.

 

[Dutchstud]

When you are a hottie, a great French kisser, have a deceiving velvet cave of live, a dreamy ass, I would not care less. I would pick you above a dude whose only pro is the sausage between his legs. ;-)

 

[GrowingMonster]

The topic of size matter is somewhat difficult, since many people will tell you it doesn`t while the other half tells you they`re lying and that it does matter. Funny enough, we mostly listen to negative feedback and if you`re already feeling bad about yourself you`ll have a sweet downward spiral.

So what is the truth now? Given from some anecdotal stuff; I`ve had a girl once who wanted me to take her virginity, since her BF was small.
Many of my hookups and fuckbuddys told me they were glad I was hung, as well as other girls who admired my bulge and wanted to suck me off or directly fuck.

Sounds like size matters doesn`t it? Well, somewhat. It matters for hookups and casual sex.
The 2 real gfs I had were both with me, not because of my cock, but rather because of me.

A relationship is more that just sex, and sex is more than cock size, and while, I admit that cocksize helps with casual sex and hookups IT DOES NOT matter for relationships. If a girl is invested in you there`ll be other problems than your size!

At last you should look at my pool of sexual endeavors, all young girls, teens and underages (as I myself am barely legal), and these girls have mostly no idea of reality.

 

[Jcam987]

Your view of cock size and purpose I believe is accurate growingmonster. Cock size is more important for casual hook ups and less important for long term relationships. I ask about cock size for a quick fuck, and yet the fact that my boyfriend has a large penis isn't really a factor in our long term relationship (15 years) and he is actually a bottom. I like to suck a big one, but not interested in being topped by it.