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My wife has an effective method of dealing with the creeps that approach, or, stare at her.
She puts a big smile onto her face, walks directly over to them, and, introduces herself. She continues to say that she is the head instructor for the women's taekwondo program, and, holds a 7th degree black belt in the martial art. The guy is told that her program is for women only; however, she is always looking for men that would like to be "attackers" during one of her self defence workshops. The guy is then told the the risk of injury, such as testicular trauma, is actually quite low. To end it, she offers to let the guy attack her then and there, and, promises that she will immobilize him only.
She reports that the guys slither off, never to be seen again.
My wife has an effective method of dealing with the creeps that approach, or, stare at her.
She puts a big smile onto her face, walks directly over to them, and, introduces herself.
When I was a grad student at a big ten university 30 years ago, I’d often go swimming in the evening and afterwards I’d shower and change in the locker room. There was a bank of hand dryers mounted above head height, to dry your hair, near the locker room exit. It seemed like there was often this guy who’d stand nude, drying his hair to complete dryness....maybe even past dryness. What was unusual was that he was nude - everybody else who used these dryers would be fully clothed, looking to get out the major wetness from their hair, before heading out. Nearly everybody stood facing the wall. Not this guy. He was on full display mode, nice, making sure we all saw his schwanz. I guess he was an exhibitionist. I found it a bit funny and a bit creepy.
I’m amazed at how much some of you notice what’s going on around you and who is doing what and for how long. I just go in, do my thing and go. I have no idea what anyone is or isn’t doing. I guess I’ll never work for the CIA!About a week ago I noticed this guy comes in. Strips off his clothes and gets in a shower. No workout prior to this. He comes in undresses our of his street clothes.. And walls around naked before he gets into the shower.
The other morning I'm standing at my locker putting moisturizer on my legs I'm bent over he comes into to the locker room sees me and says mmmmmm. I immediately stand straight up and turn around. Only to see this guy who is not in shape. In fact he's somewhat over weight. Not that there's anything wrong with that in itself. I've still got a few pounds to lose myself. But I'm working out.
Don't know whether he's cruising at that hour of the morning or if he's just lonely. Sort of creeps me out a little.
I've already had an hour workout. Showered, and getting dressed for work. Seems odd to me that someone would only come in to get naked walk around and shower. But I'm gone when he gets out so don't know what takes place after he gets through.
I did here what sounded like someone having sex in one of the changing rooms the other morning. It all seems kinda odd to me. What do you guys think?
I think you’d notice a dude drying his balls with the hand dryer.I’m amazed at how much some of you notice what’s going on around you and who is doing what and for how long. I just go in, do my thing and go. I have no idea what anyone is or isn’t doing. I guess I’ll never work for the CIA!
I’m amazed at how much some of you notice what’s going on around you and who is doing what and for how long. I just go in, do my thing and go. I have no idea what anyone is or isn’t doing. I guess I’ll never work for the CIA!
No guarantee, I’m pretty zoned out and oblivious after a good workout.I think you’d notice a dude drying his balls with the hand dryer.![]()
That just be a very small locker room for him to be that close to you each time you see him. I guess I’ll have to pay better attention to those around me. Do you report suspicious behaviour?I work with the public in a high crime area. I'm very observant of what is going on around me. Who is around me. There are crazy people in the world.
This particular dude is maybe two feet away from me in the locker room. It's pretty hard not to notice what he's doing.
I guess I see odd things fairly regularly at the gym. Most recently a guy jacking off across from me in the steam room. Does that count?I notice who is around me. I especially notice who I see over and over again. There's a difference between noticing and watching. I think it's normal to notice when someone does something odd every time you see them.
Thanks would be odd to me. I'd view it as antisocial. But I have my routine, other folks have theirs, and people I see regularly become expected. So, for instance, there's a moped rider who passes me at about a quarter to seven on weekday mornings. Eight minutes or so later, I pass him. Every day. Well, I didn't see him for about a month once, and it couldn't be explained by the weather. Not seeing him was odd, and I kinda worried about him. I can't relate to being unaware of my surroundings.I guess I see odd things fairly regularly at the gym. Most recently a guy jacking off across from me in the steam room. Does that count?
I saw a guy over near the sink completely nude with one leg hiked up on the sink and he was lifting his balls with one hand and shaving his taint. He was completely oblivious to me and others that were giving him odd stares. I think aside from that I watched a guy pull his bag out of his locker after coming from the showers and he proceeded to put on his bondage wear under his loose t-shirt and shorts. He had wore a leather harness and a jockstrap then put his clothing on over it. I looked in his bag and saw a huge bottle of silicone Gun Oil Lube in his gym bag.
Oh most definitely. My gym does have it's fair share of gay men that are unclockable though. I think he figured if he presented his fetish for bondage and displayed the lube he would send a clear message. I don't really talk to him but next time I see him I may strike up a conversation and eventually see if he's had luck with guys at the gym just out of curiosity.He's advertising. gross