The way you treat hung men

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I noticed this. On a night out with my flatmates, I was 'dancing' with my flatmate, a girl who for some reason didn't like me (she didn't like anyone for that matter, and has since moved out). I made sure she knew I had a nice sized penis. Just soft, but caressing her ass with it lol and pressing it into her gently.

After that she was nice to me, although she did scratch my baking tray for some reason (wtf). Also, in the flat now I wear loose shorts, and get more respect since I have a VDL (Visible Dick Line) lol. The girls are nicer to me, and always making excuses to come into my room...
 

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I tell myself all the time to treat all guys the same, but once I find out about some guy's extra between his legs, I can't help myself but become interested in it and start to flirt him.

Of course, there are exceptions. I appreciate a guy who knows that he's been gifted from nature, and knows how to put that extra gift to a good use. Needless to say, those aren't two features coming hand-in-hand - if a guy is hung, but that's about all he has to offer, and the rest of him is a sleazy, dirty, fat bloke, all he'll see of my bedroom is the door's outside. Fortunately, those cases are rare.

That's about all difference in my treatment. I try to be nice (or not-so-nice, often) to every man, but the attractive ones with the P extra can be sure that I flirt them!
 

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Ugh, I had my first "big dicked asshole" experience. This guy was so into himself that he wanted to get into pain and humiliation with me. Yuck, some things are just too much to ask for a simple orgasm. Not even for a big dick. Plenty of guys around who know what to do with their li'l bit extra!
 

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madame_zora said:
Ugh, I had my first "big dicked asshole" experience. This guy was so into himself that he wanted to get into pain and humiliation with me. Yuck, some things are just too much to ask for a simple orgasm. Not even for a big dick. Plenty of guys around who know what to do with their li'l bit extra!

And that's a good thing, honey! (sorry)

Really, a big dick is no clearance to do anything in bed, and guys who think the world turns around their dick should consider seeing the shrink. Aggressiveness, and some arrogance can be turn-ons for me (I love it when a man who has my level), but egocentric, self-centered blokes are bores. And duds.
 

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ClaireTalon said:
Really, a big dick is no clearance to do anything in bed, and guys who think the world turns around their dick should consider seeing the shrink.
Oh, Claire... I can see it now... "Today on Dr. Phil... men who have big dicks and act like big dicks, too."

Yeah, I'd Tivo that.
 

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I'm pretty sure I have a crush on Claire. Wait... yep! I do.
Claire, I hope you like my profile picture. As for packing a little something between the legs, that is something I would love for you to find out.
 

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dlcs said:
Oh, Claire... I can see it now... "Today on Dr. Phil... men who have big dicks and act like big dicks, too."

Yeah, I'd Tivo that.

LOL you name it, baby. Really, there's nothing more funny then poking a needle into inflated egos and watch them shrink. Makes me laugh my ole butt off.
 

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Update- mine actually called and apologised. Seems he was somewhat unaware that I wasn't into it. He did stop the rough stuff when I asked, but it just felt weird. Still, nice to know he thought better of it later so I won't write him off as a loss just yet.
 

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madame_zora said:
Update- mine actually called and apologised. Seems he was somewhat unaware that I wasn't into it. He did stop the rough stuff when I asked, but it just felt weird. Still, nice to know he thought better of it later so I won't write him off as a loss just yet.

Good to hear Mme. Z........"All 's well, that ends well!" as they say.
Though it may not be a bad idea to keep a can of mace at the side of your bed.........just in case he gets a lil' to caught up in the passion, and tries to pull out a whip or something...........
 

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Alley Blue said:
Though it may not be a bad idea to keep a can of mace at the side of your bed.........just in case he gets a lil' to caught up in the passion, and tries to pull out a whip or something...........

or second thought ... don't keep mace by you bedside. he may get to it first - begin "caught up in the passion" and all.
 

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I experianced this personally with a girl that i had interest in. She said we should just be friends but we flirted heavily then one day on a fluke i showed her my dick when it was fully erect. After that she started to kiss me heavily toung and all and grindig on me, after that she would try to get me alone so we could do more of the same
 

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Mr.caramel said:
I experianced this personally with a girl that i had interest in. She said we should just be friends but we flirted heavily then one day on a fluke i showed her my dick when it was fully erect. After that she started to kiss me heavily toung and all and grindig on me, after that she would try to get me alone so we could do more of the same

Yes this has happened to me many times.
 

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I do not believe in this thread at all. I have felt special attention when a woman has learnt from a common friend I have a large cock , but, it is usually from a woman that wants me in bed.
It is not like women in general give more attention to a guy w a large penis just because he has a large penis, unless they are looking to bed him.
If I learn a particular girl is very good in bed, or has a deliciously tight pussy, I will try to get her in bed, but, if I can not succeed, I will forget about it. I will always have the notion about te girls's sexual quality , but, from there to give special attention???
I think this is wishfull thinking.
All guys like to be around beautifull girls, that is normal, so, if a woman knows a guy is large, 2 things can happen.
One, she will actively flirt w the guy, interested
Two , She will not care at all, other than knowing he is hung, what else???

If she knows you have a large penis, and she does not act on it, but treats you w special attentions, she is weird.
 

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I think it all comes from a standpoint of society's obsession with bigger being better.As mentioned above,a large penis symbolizes masculinity,virility,sexual power.When some women know a guy has this,even if she has no interest in him,she'll probably treat him with more respect than if she either didn't know his endowment,or if he was small and she knew it.

My best friend is hung over 10 inches and is a bit of a showoff about it.He seems to have women all over him,and based on comments I've heard exchanged when we've been out in clubs,they know what he's packing.What happens when you live on a small island.
 

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well maybe someone else mentioned this....i didn't have time to read them all....but......what about something more basic to our instincts.....not that a woman wants to necessarily sleep with you...but that somehow eons of genetic programming tells woman to seek out the biggest and best "man" (translating man as a physically dominate/superior one) and mate with him for the sake of the offspring....SO this causes woman even subconsciously to act submissive or flirtatious with this newly discovered superior "man"....humm...just a thought from the peanut gallery
 

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Growing up through my teens and single twenties, one of my very best friends was super well endowed. He once told me he was 11 inches long and 7 inches around, whether or not those numbers are true he was by far the best hung man I have ever seen.
The point is I noticed that he had an awful former girl friends (and he had a lot of girl friends)that he had broken up with come back to him for very short "make-ups" lasting made a week or two. A couple of them came back three or more times.
In hind sight I now am convinced that they just didn't want to give up on getting to pleasure of that over-sized cock.
By the way I married one of his exgirlfriends but that is another story.
 

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SCsoccerMom said:
well maybe someone else mentioned this....i didn't have time to read them all....but......what about something more basic to our instincts.....not that a woman wants to necessarily sleep with you...but that somehow eons of genetic programming tells woman to seek out the biggest and best "man" (translating man as a physically dominate/superior one) and mate with him for the sake of the offspring....SO this causes woman even subconsciously to act submissive or flirtatious with this newly discovered superior "man"....humm...just a thought from the peanut gallery

I disagree with you, Soccer Mom. I found out that I live in an island. Most guys are about 5 to 7 in long ( girls accounts ) so, I do not believe women , from ancestral times , have been selecting men for "size". Were that be the case, all men would be hung, by natural selection. If women were to mate w the large men fron eons ago, small guys would had not been able to pass their genes. Fact is, it is the opposite, we large guys are closer to dissappearing, for every 8+ boy born, there must be a million 5 1/2 inchers around.

I do not think there is any special treat, for number one, rumors are just that, rumors, a woman will not know what a guy packs until she sees it.
If it were true, a small guy could make some false reputation, and enjoy the benegfits of being considered hung.
It is diferent to compare a beautifull woman to a penis. All men treat beautifull women better, like I assume all women treat good looking guys better , but I would not treat a woman that has a reputation for having a nice shaved and wet pussy better than another. I would take those commnets into account, but I would have to see it to believe it. Until then, it is only a thought.
The only women that, yes, treat me diferently because of my size, is , the ones that have gotten sex w me. Those, yes, those women already know me and tried me, and, yes, ex girl friends come for more all the time. Probably I am not alone here, any guy w a large penis knows that after breaking up, chances that the girl will contact for more sex is very high.
But that is after tha fact, not before going to bed.

Aside from curiosity, it does not amount to "treating better". Like I said before, if there is any desire to get fucked by the girl, that is normal hunting. If there is no desire on the woman, she is not going to treat a hung ( supposed, she has not corroborated it ) ... guy any better.

Just my opinion.... I think it is wishfull thinking on the part of men , and to women, why would you treat a guy you are told is hung, better than others, if you are not interested in him???
 

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I read earlier about someone saying, "and intimidate men", and there are questions about this phrase.

In the environment I work in, the guys who know everything get everything, so if someone acts like they know everything, they will soon get everything.

Seems to have worked for sometime, untill a couple of us acted like we had everything to learn, and COULD learn it.

Is the machismo thing is dead and gone?

I was in a college bar the other night for cheap drinks and a good time, and every guy in there was sizing me up. I am 6'9" tall and about 300#'s ,and all the guys were staring at me. Someone said that women look for the biggest, strongest mate, "instictively". I'm not sure that this instinct has been passed down through female genes. After all the guy that invented the pet rock got laid, and I know a lot of women who would fuck Bill Gates blind.

The "man's man" is losing his status in the propogation food chain to the smaller, more itelijent (mispelt to proof a point) men, with money.

Are these damn computers and our bandwagon culture are killing the "hunters" of humankind.

Men are still "simple" creatures. If you are sensitive, then women see you as a "friend", and men see you as "gay". Sexual intimidation is bullshit bucause the ones you favor are the IDEAL candidates. Whether it is the one you want to sleep with, or the one you want to watch the game with.

I don't believe in walking into a room swinging your dick around and throwing it over your shoulder saying, "Gimme a raise." But I do believe in a low cut, button stretching blouse. But that is just me.

IMO, if a man seeks to intimidate other men he is insecure, or still on the high school football team.

Evolution of the species- smaller, "smarter" (pet rock guy); smaller, crazy, lucky (Tom Cruise); and the dying MAN'S MAN (Ted Nugent). These are the standards that women and men see on TV as the prime candidates to repopulate the earth with. I personally wouldn't vote for any of them, and thus humanity dies a slow, rich, dumb death.

When you get treated well because of your penis size, actual or expected, take'em ome and slamm'em, because you have found a relic and maybe, if you are lucky enough, you might be immortalized in a wax museum on a seedy highway in Arizona.

If you are still reading, this is the end of my misanthropic rant, and I hope you all sleep with someone who has adjusted their standards a little to high- Just to keep us all alive and well.