for the last lots of years. i express myself sexually, when i need to, by sending pictures and videos of myself to a select few, male, mainly online friends. or sometimes i post them for whoever to see. every year or so i feel the need to be physical, so i arrange some sex time with one of these guys (who i will likely never meet in person again), have my fill, then get back to being online only. sometimes i go away for a week, so i get my vacation and my sex done at the same time. i've had a couple of sort-of relationships in the last 8 years, weekend only, but it just felt like a bit too much. they still call & message me, but i'm not interested in anything more than a friendly chat. it's an odd way to deal with sex, but it fits in with my life. i'm a busy, working mother of two. i like having my free time to either relax or do stuff with the kids. i don't ever feel lonely for someone being there, i feel claustrophobic fast, but i still need a sexual outlet of some sort. i never bother to go out on the pull, flirt when i'm out, eye up guys in the street, etc. it just feels like shitting on my own doorstep, and i'd rather have a physical distance to keep my space. so, ladies, as modern women in the modern world, how do you see the changes in how we run our sex lives?