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I've noticed that a fascination with the urinal thing is a recurring theme on this forum. I just posted this blog about a recent experience: http://www.lpsg.org/blogs/henry+miller/cute-urinal-experience-5547/
Does anyone have any thoughts on why this is such a fascinating thing for so many of us? For me, there seems to be something interesting about "eroticism" vs "funcationality." What I mean is: the penis is not always sexual, and exposing one's penis isn't always sexual. When we have to urinate, it generally is not an erotic experience.
I'm not explaining this very well. But basically there is, oddly, something erotic about it being non-erotic. Example. I remember reading a while ago that one thing gay men love about the Deux du Stade calendars is that the guys are so comfortable being naked together. But the reason the guys are so comfortable to be naked together is because it's no big deal for them to be naked together. It's so ironic that gay and bisexual men find it sexually arousing that being naked together is "no big deal" to the rugby players.
Does anyone have any thoughts on why this is such a fascinating thing for so many of us? For me, there seems to be something interesting about "eroticism" vs "funcationality." What I mean is: the penis is not always sexual, and exposing one's penis isn't always sexual. When we have to urinate, it generally is not an erotic experience.
I'm not explaining this very well. But basically there is, oddly, something erotic about it being non-erotic. Example. I remember reading a while ago that one thing gay men love about the Deux du Stade calendars is that the guys are so comfortable being naked together. But the reason the guys are so comfortable to be naked together is because it's no big deal for them to be naked together. It's so ironic that gay and bisexual men find it sexually arousing that being naked together is "no big deal" to the rugby players.