The worst date ever!

[petite]

I have an Aunt and a cousin who each dated someone who either killed someone prior to meeting them or after. 3 times in the family to be exact. And people wonder why i read up on the serial killers?

One them came knocking on the door when i was about 15 years old looking for my Aunt when i was home alone. Looked out the bathroom window and called my Dad at work wondering what to do. He said, don't answer. I was glad i trusted my gut. We only found out later that he just got out of 20 years in prison for murder.

My aunt is horrible at picking men obviously.

That's some terrible luck there! I'd never trust my own judgment again if that kept happening to me.

Went out with a guy (1 of only 2 dates in the past 5 years and this is why)- I didn't know what he looked like but he knew what I looked like, had just emailed and talked over the phone. Parameters were set in place and mutually agree upon.

Met for a lunch date - he was easy to talk to, but I was not attracted to him (as usual) but he was all over me after the lunch when we went for a walk at a nearby park (no people there). He said I looked better in person and pulled my skirt up and looked at my ass, which he declared "perfect", being an ass man. I pushed my skirt down and he proceeded to unzip his pants, pull out his penis, and push my head on top of it all so quickly, I was just stunned. I jerked my head up, got back in the car and said angrily, "That was NOT what we agreed upon!"

His response? "You didn't even get me hard." Hard?!! He was lucky I didn't bite the heck out of his freakin' cock. I made him take me back, left and when he called, (yep - he didn't get it) and asked, "What turned you off?" I said, "I was never turned on!" Told him not to call again. Bad date, and could have been dangerous. Not doing that again.

That's really scary! I'm very lucky that no one I've actually gone out on a date with has ever attacked me or gotten physical like that, although other men have in other situations.

 

[dolfette]

However, you are right that I would be totally shocked if anyone brought coke on a date! I'm shocked if a guy doesn't shave for a date and he's not sporting a sexy and intentional "unshaven look," so... Yeah, coke is really out there for me!

I also couldn't date a drug addict, no matter what. No matter how much I love him.

london financial types and coke. they often seem to go together...might explain the economy.


it's an aphrodisiac, so i can kinda understand why someone would if they thought they were getting lucky.

 

[D_Tina_Ciao]

That's really scary! I'm very lucky that no one I've actually gone out on a date with has ever attacked me or gotten physical like that, although other men have in other situations.

I know! I hadn't even considered he might get physical because we'd set up rules/parameters, but he just kept touching me. Luckily, I am one tough cookie who's not easily intimidated - I'm really gutsy/courageous so I wasn't at all afraid of him - that could have been foolish on my part, but I'm Southern, stuck up for myself and put him in his place.

But IF I ever go on another date, I'll know what he looks like, will KNOW him a lot better before I meet him in person, and never go anywhere alone with him - not on a first date. I was fortunate. :smile:

 

[sbat]

there was the idiot who turned up on our second date with a bag full of bondage gear and coke.

I didn't know you were still into guys

 

[petite]

london financial types and coke. they often seem to go together...might explain the economy.


it's an aphrodisiac, so i can kinda understand why someone would if they thought they were getting lucky.

That's hilarious!

Yeah, I remember that effect. Sometimes I feel like that without any coke at all. :redface:

I think there's something about my IRL persona that tells men that it wouldn't be a good idea to do something like suggest drugs on a date with me. I'm the woman that men date when they're looking for a wife. That became obvious to me by the age of 21, which was the year I got an absurd number of marriage proposals. I only dated 12 men that year. Men who ask me out seem to be ready to settle down, because that's how most of them treat me, like the future mother of their children.

 

[dolfette]

I think there's something about my IRL persona that tells men that it wouldn't be a good idea to do something like suggest drugs on a date with me. I'm the woman that men date when they're looking for a wife. That became obvious to me by the age of 21, which was the year I got an absurd number of marriage proposals. I only dated 12 men that year. Men who ask me out seem to be ready to settle down, because that's how most of them treat me, like the future mother of their children.

me too. men see me as a long termer. i get a lot of proposals.

but they also see that i'm not easy to shock and very open minded, so they do tend to reveal a bit too much. from bestialty to drug abuse, they'll tell me anything!

 

[petite]

me too. men see me as a long termer. i get a lot of proposals.

but they also see that i'm not easy to shock and very open minded, so they do tend to reveal a bit too much. from bestialty to drug abuse, they'll tell me anything!

You know, that's really convenient! At least you know early on what some of that stuff is. It probably saves you a lot of time.

I guess men into that sort of stuff just avoid me. I get vanilla guys, except for my first love. I've ended up being the kinkier one in almost every single one of my relationships, and I'm really not kinky at all, especially compared to the things the other ladies on LPSG talk about. I'm just horny.

 

[barbsdaughter]

My worst date ever was going horseback riding. It wasn't the guys fault as he didn't know the horse was going to spook. All I could do was hold on for dear life for what seemed like miles and miles until the horse quit running. Come to find out the horse was deathly scared of squirrels.....yep, squirrels, and I got to find out the hard way whether I could stay on the horse at a dead run. I passed but when he stopped I got off and haven't gotten back on since. Another clue, a'int gonna either. His name was Target so I think he was looking for a bullseye to centerpunch.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

yes i have.

but, no, not in the original thread.

Yeah - I remember her mentioning the coke.

Bad dates? Um... I don't remember too well, so I guess there can't have been anything too bad.

 

[dolfette]

for the most part guys have been on their best behaviour on dates.

my bad experiences have all been with ''friends'', colleagues or exes. usually it's guys who know they're not in with a chance who'll drop their charade of morality.

 

[B_subgirrl]

I'm not sure if I've ever been on a date. Truly.

 

[B_crackoff]

I'm not sure if I've ever been on a date. Truly.

That's a little bit sad, but it depends on your definition of a date!

It's still a date even if you've already started humping, & arrange to meet again & go to a pub ,bar, club, park, restaurant etc.

Dolfette, I'm not even sure that coke is an aphrodisiac (unless you mainline into your genitals, which I've known some heavy users do - with disastrous long term consequences!). With my experience of City boy life, it was the only way that they could keep up & stay awake:smile:

At least it wasn't GBH/GHB. A group of us did that a few years back when it was legal - talk about a lack of inhibition! Not so good when an ex spiked me with it however

My worst date was on a New Year's Eve. A girl had arranged accommodation for me, & I was having to work till 10, then travel 50 miles to get to get to the large party she was at.

When I got there, about 5 minutes before the turn of the year, I found her energetically getting to know a new playmate:frown1:

On the plus side, I'm not one to wallow, & managed to persuade one of her (honestly better looking - but married) friends to keep me company @ the apartment instead.

I also went out on a group blind date once. The girl was very pretty, & immediately full on passionate, & I thought hey-ho, maybe blind dates aren't that bad.

Before midnight she went to powder her nose, whereupon my mate pointed at her seat & said "I think she's pissed herself".

And do you know what? She had, & on closer inspection, the aroma suggested that she'd also followed through a little!

Instead of legging it however, I took her to oneside when she returned, asked her if she was Ok, & did she want to go home, & actually took her back like a gentleman - before rejoining the group, & knocking back more booze than possible to cleanse the memory!

 

[dolfette]

awwwww! good on you!

 

[D_Sparroe Spongecaques]

He arrived with one of his kids in tow.......we ended up in the kids play area,the kids hair was all scratty so i put her hair up for her,she was a lovely little girl and quite sweet...........and then she said "Daddy said you're going to be my new mummy"

This was the first date btw!..............and the last!!

 

[HiddenLacey]

Ok after reading crackoffs experiences I don't know that I would ever want another date.

 

[B_subgirrl]

That's a little bit sad, but it depends on your definition of a date!

It's still a date even if you've already started humping, & arrange to meet again & go to a pub ,bar, club, park, restaurant etc.

Really? I struggle with the concept of date. It's not really a term that's used where I live. Is it a date if you meet a fuck buddy for 'drinks', knowing that drinks is just a euphemism for sex? Coz I've done that plenty of times :smile: I think I've just rarely had to go through those early stages of a relationship. Most of the people I've had sex with have been mates first. Some have been one-nighters picked up at the club (no date there either).

Is it a date if you're in a LTR and you go out to a restaurant? Coz I've done that.

With my last LTR we met and had sex in one weekend (it was a sort of camping trip). After that I just went and hung out at his place heaps. Sometimes while I was there we'd decide to go out for dinner or to the movies, but nothing I'd count as a date.

My first two LTR's happened in a pretty similar way, only with the sex occurring a bit later.

I've never actually met someone, exchanged numbers, and got in contact later for a date.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Ok after reading crackoffs experiences I don't know that I would ever want another date.

Some of these stories are a little scary! Makes me glad I haven't really done dates - mind you I could probably get myself into a lot more trouble doing things my way.

 

[dolfette]

He arrived with one of his kids in tow.......we ended up in the kids play area,the kids hair was all scratty so i put her hair up for her,she was a lovely little girl and quite sweet...........and then she said "Daddy said you're going to be my new mummy"

This was the first date btw!..............and the last!!

awww! that poor baby :frown1:

and the douche probably thought that he could manipulate you by your maternal instincts.

 

[StillEnjoyingLife]

This story is pretty mild compared to some of the stories already told here, but the incident bothered me considerably at the time--perhaps because it occurred during a particularly emotionally stressful period in my life.

A couple of months after my first wife and I had separated and while our divorce was underway, I invited a professional colleague, from a different company, to accompany me to a dinner. It was hosted by a colleague in my department in my company, and the 20 or so attendees were mostly couples of whom at least one worked with me.

My companion at the dinner was a somewhat younger woman, around 40 and attractive enough to have been a model when she was in her late teens. On the basis of several previous professional meetings with her, I had thought that she and I were quite congenial, but at the dinner she spent most of her time talking to others, several of whom she knew professionally. Partly because the following day was a workday, the dinner ended shortly after 9:30 p.m., and when we left, I offered to take her somewhere for a drink or coffee. She responded that she was very tired and just wanted to go home, so I took her to her apartment. At the door, she told me that she was so tired that she was going straight to bed, thus making it clear that she was not going to invite me in, even briefly.

After leaving her apartment I stopped at a gasoline station about a block away. While I was filling up my gas tank, she drove into the station in her car, made a brief stop at a pump, and left before I finished cleaning my windshield. When she drove away, she was clearly not heading back to her apartment.

I was sufficiently annoyed that I never asked her out again.

Yes, my pride was hurt. At the very least, she could have taken the trouble to lie to me less transparently!

 

[xX_Sarah_Xx]

My worst date ever was in kindergarten... One boy asked me to play in the sandbox with him during the break and another boy had overheard and barged in on our date and made the first boy eat sand. The first boy then started throwing sand at him and I got it in my nose and ear.

Haven't really had a date since then