So for those of you that don't know what thedirty.com is it's basically a website where you can post anonymous statements about other people and post their pictures. It is seperated by cities and colleges. A lot of it is just your typical bathroom wall B.S., a lot of it is talking about how slutty a girl is, or how they use drugs, etc. I was told i was on the site, and I am. However it isn't a really big deal to me. However I went thru the people for my hometown and found my ex/close friend. Basically we were bf/gf in high school and have stayed close friends ever since (4 years). She currently has a boyfriend of like 3/4 months. The stuff said about her includes her sleeping around, that she sometimes has acne on her face and it's probably from all the cum guys spray on her (new to me), that she will suck/fuck anything that moves, and that she had an abortion. Obviously the big one is the abortion. It happened last year and only a couple people know about it, a mutual friend of ours told me about it and I know that my ex doesn't know I know about it. For a girl that is 21 having out on the internet that she had an abortion would probably crush anybody, and definitely this girl since she has a pretty good reputation. My issue is, do I tell her about the posting and basically give her a heads up, and be that shoulder to cry on? Or do i just let time work and be there when someone else points it out to her?