I'd like to get some opinions from the general audience here. I was fairly active on this site up until a few months ago, when my wife discovered I was on this site. She shit a brick, basically, but luckily didn't divorce me over it. Still she insisted I see a therapist which I reluctantly did just to save the marriage. That's not really the issue though, as it turns out therapy has helped me realize some of my issues go back many many years to when I was a child. So I appreciate help with those things. What I'm having trouble with is the therapist, a specialist in sexual addiction, telling me I should never visit this site and any such actions, such as posting photos to the gallery and being in video chat, are deviant, abhorrent behaviors which are not appropriate, healthy outlets. I'm not so sure I buy into that-I've questioned her (yes, it's a she) as to why it is wrong, and haven't gotten an answer I buy yet. It seems more like her job is to brainwash me into cessation of any behavior involving sharing my penis (not like I go around randomly exposing myself to strangers). Comments like: "Doesn't it bother you that other people can see your penis? What if they get turned on by that?" irk me somewhat, since I said in return "Look, anyone can see another person in public and get turned on by him or her." Maybe I'm just confused, delusional, and not facing facts... either that or my therapist is insane. Or both. But I have a hard time believing that this web site is inherently evil, nor are my interests in being part of this group. I like my penis. I like how it looks. I like how *I* look now. I like seeing other guys' penises. I don't want to suck on them or fuck them, however. I'm not looking for a gay/str8/bi label here; I don't need an exact %, although I fear my wife's goal for my therapy is to cease all of this 'nonsense' and be a perfect heterosexual man who does everything the way she thinks it must be. I, on the other hand, would rather be comfortable in the skin I'm in, realizing I'm complex and not 100% str8 or gay, for what little that means. Unfortunately my therapist seems to agree with my wife that I need to be de-programmed. I just want to understand why I am the way I am and go from there. And I think: why not share my dick with people who are interested? After all, I'm not forcing people to look at me-when you sign up for this page you're choosing to see what's here. I like to see where I stand compared to others; it's interesting to me. Hopefully I didn't lose everyone or bore you-I just need some advice from the masses as to what this all means. Thanks in advance for your consideration.