IntoxicatingToxin
Expert Member
Sounds to me like you need a therapist to help you with your childhood issues - NOT a sex therapist. Your wife must be incredibly insecure!
Yet another reason not to get a wife methinks. Stupid hambeast is most likely frightened of the idea that there are more semi-anonymous people on the Internet appreciating your attitude, your posts and your prick then she ever could.
Yes, if you must be blunt, it is "deviant" behaviour! That's why it is private. Millions of people do things behind closed doors far grosser and sicker and many other millions are tamer and tepid, it's part of being alive and having the freedom to do whatever the hell you want.
Do yourself a favour, you have a good body, good morals and act reasonably intelligant. Dump the bitch and find a new woman.
Hold on a second! I said hamBEAST not hamBEASTS. I am allowed to insult other people who are non members of the site aren't I?Tell me... Why does his wife represent all potential future wives and not me? I'm a wife. I have none of those attitudes. I'm not a "stupid hambeast" am I? How about EllieP? What about Gretchenweiner? What about all the women who have commented in this thread supporting the OP?
If a man is abusive towards me, is it your fault because you're also a man? Should I blame you? Of course not. Don't do the reverse to us, blaming all women for the actions of one person.
No, you said that the OP's experience is the reason why you don't want a wife, as if she's the only woman who can represent all the potential wives you might potentially have, and that offends me, as a woman and a wife. I'm extremely open minded, I'm experimental and I'm fantastic in bed, and I'm a great wife. You didn't just insult that woman, you insulted all women. It's exactly the same thing as if I used the example of the last bad lover I had and said that he's the reason why men are useless in the sack. By just saying "men" I'm including all of mankind in my statement. That's not true because even though lots of men are useless in the sack, I happen to be with a man who is great in bed.Hold on a second! I said hamBEAST not hamBEASTS. I am allowed to insult other people who are non members of the site aren't I?
Anyway, I'm sure you have more value as a "woman" and an individual that "just a wife", surely? But that's a women's issue discussion I believe.
OP, please don't think that those of us who disagree with your wife's taste in marital counseling automatically all consider her a 'stupid hambeast'. I prefer to think that she has been poorly educated about human sexuality. As a legitimate contributor to your sex life as a couple her preferences and tastes need to be considered. However that works in both directions and she needs to also consider your tastes and libido level as equally worthy of respect.
I'd rather you don't simply dump her as intolerant and judgmental before you have tried to work things out in Mutual therapy.
Not only that, petite, calling somebody's wife a hambeast is no way to get him to agree with you. :thinking: mmmm, ham.....
Your language here appalls me. Later you defend yourself by saying you're allowed to insult people who are not members of the site. Don't you think refering to a man's chosen mate as "Stupid hambeast" and "bitch" insult him? Even if my man was disturbed by some attitude I was trying to force on him, if you called me that to his face he'd break your arm. We haven't even seen any evidence of stupidity here, just repression, perhaps closed-mindedness. You're a jerk.Yet another reason not to get a wife methinks. Stupid hambeast is most likely frightened of the idea that there are more semi-anonymous people on the Internet appreciating your attitude, your posts and your prick then she ever could.
Yes, if you must be blunt, it is "deviant" behaviour! That's why it is private. Millions of people do things behind closed doors far grosser and sicker and many other millions are tamer and tepid, it's part of being alive and having the freedom to do whatever the hell you want.
Do yourself a favour, you have a good body, good morals and act reasonably intelligant. Dump the bitch and find a new woman.
I'd lick it, whatever it was, if it didn't bite.No kidding! What the heck is a hambeast anyway?![]()
I'd lick it, whatever it was, if it didn't bite.