There Is More To It Than A Big Cock

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I am female. I'm also bi with a girl friend. However I love sex with men, especially if they have really big cocks. I've been fucked by a lot of guys with big ones and some have been monsters that were so thick they scared me, but I got them in and ended up with a hell of a good banging. The color of the guy doesn't really matter although I will admit that I've hooked up with some black guys whose cocks were unbelievable. I always thought the videos on porn sites were faked...some might be but I can assure there are some very large cocks out there. Anyway what I want to say is this. Having a big cock is not all it takes to make a woman cum. Getting hard, shoving it in and banging away until you cum doesn't do it. You need to know how to make it as exciting an experience for her as it is for you. So I'm suggesting if you have a girl friend or know a girl who is willing to help you learn how to combine furious fucking with making love, do it. I always insist that any guy who fucks me, whether he is outsized or not, wear a rubber. I always carry the thinnest ones available as well as magnums. I usually insist on putting it on the guy because that enhances both of our horniness. Some guys have balked but when I get through with the encounter between my mouth and their cock they usually will readily let me put it on them. I'm not complaining. There are times when I want him to plow the shit out of me so that I can hardly walk. And there's other times when I want it big and thick but also with a touch of romance and gentleness.
 
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It is unfortunate that men don’t get more advice in their youth on how to pleasure their partner. There is so much information online now to improve oral and fingering techniques and also to read about what women like and respond to (although everyone is different) and how important it is to listen and pay attention.
All of my female friends and exes have told me about experiences with men where it was just wham, bam, thank you ma’am. It seems to be when a large dick guy does that, it leaves a permanent impression.
Thanks for starting this thread. Good topic.
 

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I am female. I'm also bi with a girl friend. However I love sex with men, especially if they have really big cocks. I've been fucked by a lot of guys with big ones and some have been monsters that were so thick they scared me, but I got them in and ended up with a hell of a good banging. The color of the guy doesn't really matter although I will admit that I've hooked up with some black guys whose cocks were unbelievable. I always thought the videos on porn sites were faked...some might be but I can assure there are some very large cocks out there. Anyway what I want to say is this. Having a big cock is not all it takes to make a woman cum. Getting hard, shoving it in and banging away until you cum doesn't do it. You need to know how to make it as exciting an experience for her as it is for you. So I'm suggesting if you have a girl friend or know a girl who is willing to help you learn how to combine furious fucking with making love, do it. I always insist that any guy who fucks me, whether he is outsized or not, wear a rubber. I always carry the thinnest ones available as well as magnums. I usually insist on putting it on the guy because that enhances both of our horniness. Some guys have balked but when I get through with the encounter between my mouth and their cock they usually will readily let me put it on them. I'm not complaining. There are times when I want him to plow the shit out of me so that I can hardly walk. And there's other times when I want it big and thick but also with a touch of romance and gentleness.
...yes, there is so much more to sex than a penis... and much more to masculinity than simply owning a dick.
 

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It is unfortunate that men don’t get more advice in their youth on how to pleasure their partner. There is so much information online now to improve oral and fingering techniques and also to read about what women like and respond to (although everyone is different) and how important it is to listen and pay attention.
All of my female friends and exes have told me about experiences with men where it was just wham, bam, thank you ma’am. It seems to be when a large dick guy does that, it leaves a permanent impression.
Thanks for starting this thread. Good topic.

You're right, but... Guys can be really dumb, especially when we're young. We're driven to screw before we have any clue. We're barely sentient, much less present. We can't pay attention with broke brains. :)

By the time most of us are finally able to slow down, stop being so selfish and are really able to appreciate where we are, what we have and who we're with, we're full of bad habits. All the time and energy spent trying to get sex from generic people doesn't really prepare us to please a specific person.

Compounding this challenge is those who take advantage of our wants rather than actually prepare us to meet others' needs. Often calling themselves "life coaches" now, they'll still take money out of your pants to get you in somebody else's -- then bail before you fail to do even that. Would you trust this guy to give oral or fingering techniques? :p

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You're right, but... Guys can be really dumb, especially when we're young. We're driven to screw before we have any clue. We're barely sentient, much less present. We can't pay attention with broke brains. :)

By the time most of us are finally able to slow down, stop being so selfish and are really able to appreciate where we are, what we have and who we're with, we're full of bad habits. All the time and energy spent trying to get sex from generic people doesn't really prepare us to please a specific person.

Compounding this challenge is those who take advantage of our wants rather than actually prepare us to meet others' needs. Often calling themselves "life coaches" now, they'll still take money out of your pants to get you in somebody else's -- then bail before you fail to do even that. Would you trust this guy to give oral or fingering techniques? :p

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Porn is actually a negative for young men because they think that what they see on screen is how they should be using their dicks and treating women. Every time i see an amateur flick of a guy with a big dick pounding away with no rhythm like a broken jackhammer I cringe.
 

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...yes, there is so much more to sex than a penis... and much more to masculinity than simply owning a dick.
so true
to me i am much more attracted by a kind and smart girl than a horny cute one
for exemple a friend is with a prostitute oh yeah :D he asked her to please me once she is cute and younger
but she is so .. dumbed i wouldn't even be able to want to make love with her
i am sometimes attracted by some men too not thinking about sex but a beautiful relation.. attracted by kndness self confidence and especially aura
i can remember when i was a kid there was a gay couple in the street ... they were the perfect couple and the perfect people
no other there could compete.
anyway just to say your words reminded me my first terrible bad experience in sex
i didn't know much the girl... we were enjoying being together it went fast
we couldn't d it properly... it is like she was thinking i was a porn actor or something so in the same time she didn't like and in the same time i wanted tender and very slow ...
bad cmmunication ..; big miss . so yeah penis itself is useless even in sex without lot of other stuff like communication preparation love and so
 
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Too much focus on the cock will probably stand in the way for the mutual pleasure in most cases. No matter the size, that is.
The cock is a tool in the toolbox and a bigger cock can add some flavour, but there is so much more to it.
My guess is that if men would treat the cock as secondary and instead focus and explore her potential pleasures, the sexual satisfaction in the world would sky rocket. :)
 

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It's never been an intentional strategy but from youth I always enjoyed making out and foreplay more than sex itself and have never been in hurry to get into a woman's pants unless she is (there's a place for quickies). In my experience women enjoy a long slow warm up before bashing it.

After lengthy make out & foreplay women often take the lead getting naked, telling me to get naked and communicating their desire and consent. As I am large I get on my back and let a woman control how quickly/slowly she gets on unless she communicates preference for some other position.

Most straight porn is male fantasy crap. One exception is cunnilingus. Guys need to learn it, do it, savor it. From a young age I had a reputation not only for size but as a guy "who knows how to do it" as one young lady said. When I asked what that meant she said "you don't rush it and you go down."

Application of a condom becomes part of foreplay. Lots of women like rolling it on as part of oral sex or cock play. Some don't.

Porn isn't sex. Okay it's performance sex but not real sex. IMO the problem is a lack of sex education. When I was young I assumed women got turned on and were ready to fuck as quickly as men. Wrong. Luckily I got ahold of and read The Joy of Sex which taught me the difference between male and female sexual response. And that communication is everything.

Thanks for starting this thread. :cool:
 

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I’ve been with more than my share of women with some being in lifeless marriages. Every woman I’ve ever got to know....wants to laugh and feel desired.
If you can do those two...... and be somewhat attractive- she will undress for you.
I’ve always said this - if a man can keep the nasty gut off- women will always find you attractive in some form. Dick size doesn’t matter if you’re arrogant and have a nasty fat gut.
I’ve been blessed with my endowment, but my results in the gym are a direct result of my work ethic. And yes, women love muscles- if they say they don’t - they are lying.
 

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I am female. I'm also bi with a girl friend. However I love sex with men, especially if they have really big cocks. I've been fucked by a lot of guys with big ones and some have been monsters that were so thick they scared me, but I got them in and ended up with a hell of a good banging. The color of the guy doesn't really matter although I will admit that I've hooked up with some black guys whose cocks were unbelievable. I always thought the videos on porn sites were faked...some might be but I can assure there are some very large cocks out there. Anyway what I want to say is this. Having a big cock is not all it takes to make a woman cum. Getting hard, shoving it in and banging away until you cum doesn't do it. You need to know how to make it as exciting an experience for her as it is for you. So I'm suggesting if you have a girl friend or know a girl who is willing to help you learn how to combine furious fucking with making love, do it. I always insist that any guy who fucks me, whether he is outsized or not, wear a rubber. I always carry the thinnest ones available as well as magnums. I usually insist on putting it on the guy because that enhances both of our horniness. Some guys have balked but when I get through with the encounter between my mouth and their cock they usually will readily let me put it on them. I'm not complaining. There are times when I want him to plow the shit out of me so that I can hardly walk. And there's other times when I want it big and thick but also with a touch of romance and gentleness.
 
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bigger is, on average, better for women. However, its probably in the bottom 10% of consideration for most women in terms of relationships. If its a wham bam, it makes a big difference.

I was looking at your cock photos and it's certainly very girthy, I also did the toilet roll test. The head fit is similar to yours, but I'm barely 6 inches girth, from what I have experienced women get sore within 10 to 20 minutes max with me and that's when they are very wet and aroused. From what I have read 6.5 to 7.5 inch girth you get a lot of micro tearing in the vagina, how long do you have vaginal sex for generally, like 10 minutes? How often and how quickly do you find women cum when you have vaginal sex with them?
 
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"Absolutely..its not just about a big cock....it takes big balls as well right.....

What?.....

Personality.......??...a brain ?...pardon....??......"

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"Absolutely..its not just about a big cock....it takes big balls as well right.....

What?.....

Personality.......??...a brain ?...pardon....??......"

*cancels LPSG account

“Not just about” is not exclusive to it, it is additional. Yes, all those other attributes are also a plus, but all other thing being equal, nobody wants, desires, enjoys, craves, idealizes a small one over a medium or large.
 
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“Not just about” is not exclusive to it, it is additional. Yes, all those other attributes are also a plus, but all other thing being equal, nobody wants, desires, enjoys, craves, idealizes a small one over a medium or large.
Im not really sure what you are saying. Brief written commentary doesn't do humor any favors.

Please feel free to explain your comments to me, as i dont really understand what you are saying.
 
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Im not really sure what you are saying. Brief written commentary doesn't do humor any favors.

Please feel free to explain your comments to me, as i dont really understand what you are saying.

You said it is NOT ONLY about big dick, does not mean it is also not exclusive. So it is about a big dick plus everything else.
 
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You said it is NOT ONLY about big dick, does not mean it is also not exclusive. So it is about a big dick plus everything else.
Like i said, satire doesn't translate well in brief written communications, so in fact im saying, that its a wide range of attributes and factors, that may be of appeal, not singularly a large penis. I appreciate your response in attempting to clarify this for me, i do appreciate the effort you went to. I find it cumbersome to navigate the use of double negatives "does not mean it is also not exclusive" , and as for the self appointed representation of speaking on others behalf "nobody wants, desires, enjoys, craves, idealizes a small one over a medium or large." i dont envy you qualifying that position of argument. Nobody means, 'without exception', and that includes me, and you dont speak on my behalf. But....back to the subject of big dicks.....its SO serious.
 
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Like i said, satire doesn't translate well in brief written communications, so in fact im saying, that its a wide range of attributes and factors, that may be of appeal, not singularly a large penis. I appreciate your response in attempting to clarify this for me, i do appreciate the effort you went to. I find it cumbersome to navigate the use of double negatives "does not mean it is also not exclusive" , and as for the self appointed representation of speaking on others behalf "nobody wants, desires, enjoys, craves, idealizes a small one over a medium or large." i dont envy you qualifying that position of argument. Nobody means, 'without exception', and that includes me, and you dont speak on my behalf. But....back to the subject of big dicks.....its SO serious.

So you do not like big dick, why are you here?