there is one sex act you adore,
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LOL thanksHe's my gold medal
that is so sweet.
i agree with whomever said if compromise isn't possible then it may be time to move on, however that said there isn't much i won't try personally. there are a few things that are sexual deal breakers for me though...id est, if my partner was all het up about bestiality then it'd probably be over for us. sexual compatibility is indeed important.
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HAHA!
i love puppies but i don't LERRRRVVVEE puppies, ya know what i mean jelly bean?
http://ihasahotdog.files.wordpress.com/2008/12/funny-dog-pictures-baby-and-dog-love-eachother.jpg
i love puppies but i don't LERRRRVVVEE puppies, ya know what i mean jelly bean?
http://ihasahotdog.files.wordpress.com/2008/12/funny-dog-pictures-baby-and-dog-love-eachother.jpg
In my difficult solution, the psycholgy would have diminished the resentment enough for them to give it a go because they wanted to.
Surely if there is a jaw problem, the sex act won't be the only thing to improve with surgery, I doubt if anyone would risk an operation just to make blowjobs possible and I never suggested that.
Unfortunately, bitterness, broken hearts, and frustration are long lasting, if it takes over one's mind, then remaining with the same person will make things worse.
A sore arse or jaw can be soothed with painkillers!
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If there's a sex act I adored but my partner actively didn't like I wouldn't push it. There's no enjoyment for me in doing something, or having something done that isn't giving pleasure to the other person.
I'd just concentrate on the other things we both like
I'd just concentrate on the other things we both like
Phil Ayesho
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This is the correct answer- except for option C-
Under no circumstances should you dally with another without your partner's consent. When you are swapping bodily fluids, you are involving your partner with another, biologically... doing so without their knowledge is a form of rape.
On a deeper level- what it the relationship about?
If your primary interest is sex... then option D might be the most satisfactory.
But suppose the person you love most in the world had their genitals destroyed thru illness or injury...
Could you give up sexual congress for the rest of your life to stay with them? Is their love that precious to you?
In the case of true love, options a or b-
Otherwise, d.
I think that if it was true love, then you might have to find something that makes your soul sing together. Whether it be something entirely new, or a variation on whatever blows your mind, you should be able to find a new fettish to trump or marginally replace the old one. The fun is in talking about it and experimenting.
If its not true love, then move on. The first time someone gives you that mind blowing earth shaking cum you have been dying to have, you will forget about the ex.
If its not true love, then move on. The first time someone gives you that mind blowing earth shaking cum you have been dying to have, you will forget about the ex.
Dolfette, this is the second thread you started about this subject, it's obviously troubling you. Are you asking the members of a sex forum for reassurance or something? Or are you telling everyone that if they are lucky enough to find a lover like you they should be grateful for what is on offer and not expect more? You're quick to be insulting if they do!
From other threads you have explained that sexually you are limited to vaginal penetration, cunnilingus and seem proud that no man has made you orgasm. Most people on this forum have a more complete range of sexual activities so they have experienced more and do expect it from new lovers.
You have made your point about not expecting something if the partner has negative issues about it, and if both partners don't want to overcome their problems then the only solutions are to accept it or leave.
THE END
From other threads you have explained that sexually you are limited to vaginal penetration, cunnilingus and seem proud that no man has made you orgasm. Most people on this forum have a more complete range of sexual activities so they have experienced more and do expect it from new lovers.
You have made your point about not expecting something if the partner has negative issues about it, and if both partners don't want to overcome their problems then the only solutions are to accept it or leave.
THE END
lol
actually, this thread was the result of a conversation with another female member in the anal thread.
now do some more of that amazing dom psychology on me!
it so impresses us subby types. honest.
In my mind there's two solutions. If they are one or two things that you love and she doesn't like, then don't bother with them anymore. For sure, I've got a couple I'd just love to do but we don't. The counterbalance is that she is a wonderful woman who I love very much, and my sex life with her is absolutely fantastic despite the one or two treats I don't experience anymore.
The second solution is if they're are too many sexual boundaries and limitations. In that case you should consider the future of the relationship. There is more to a relationship than sex, but major sexual frustration is a definite relationship-killer. Obviously you give your partner a chance to consider things before ending it, which I did. In my case she tried a few things with me, and our sex life went from pretty average to very good. Not only that, the things that she thought wouldn't turn her on did, and there was no way that she was going back!
good post!
so you've been through this and found a solution that works for both of you...but can see that it might not work out in a slightly different scenario.
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