because you're a doormat with serious self esteem issues.With my last ex, I gave her oral a lot and she never did me. That would have been fine if she said she hated doing it, but she did it for her exes, so why did she not do it for me? She never complained that I smelled bad or anything. Why do it for these other guys but not me?
what if the act was sex itself?I think that if your partner doesn't want to do one particular sex act because it bothers her in one way or another than you just don't do it. If one act of sex is so earthshatteringly important to you, than maybe it's time to grow up a bit.
because you're a doormat with serious self esteem issues.
because, basically, you let her treat you like shit.
got to love & respect yourself a bit more, doll.
it comes through in your posts.Wow, does the lack of self esteem come through in my posts, or are you just going off of what she was probably thinking? I know it's my responsibility, but she certainly did nothing to ever improve my self esteem after we got to know each other and always berated me, never really communicated with me... I could go on but I'd rather hear your answer at the moment.
hmmm...If the act was sex itself, than that maybe changes my answer, although if i loved this woman, then I have to believe I would stick it out (no pun intended). If it was just someone I was dating then I would move on. I think that good sex is exceedingly important in a healthy relationship, but love isn't something to scoff at or treat lightly either.
I'll say one thing, I'm glad this is only a hypothetical question. lol.
I could go on but I'd rather hear your answer at the moment.
The better response was probably, "fuck off, you're wrong"
I regret to inform you that you've probably instead bolstered her point.
that's because he's nicer and smarter than you.The better response was probably, "fuck off, you're wrong"
I regret to inform you that you've probably instead bolstered her point.
see^^smart and polite.Being respectful and wanting to listen to someone else is bolstering the point that I have no self respect? Besides I didn't think she said anything to make me say "fuck off". Though I could tell you to fuck off and let me figure this out and not have you destroy what little self respect I have :smile:
i've never said it wasn't a virtue, you tragic little man.Apparently 'nice' is now a virtue... only when it's inherent in someone else I guess
Besides I didn't think she said anything to make me say "fuck off". Though I could tell you to fuck off and let me figure this out and not have you destroy what little self respect I have :smile:
i've never said it wasn't a virtue, you tragic little man.
what other guide would i use for insulting dummies, kid?your copy of 'insults for dummies' must be pretty dog-eared by now... but i find this comment oddly inconsistent from someone so proudly bitchy...
Seeing as how I'm never going to get laid by Dolfette and I wasn't seeking it, the fact that boobs are attached has little to do with it. I would have agreed with you too.
I just didn't see what made my comment to look like I was being walked over again.
he's just being an arse to you because he has issues with me.
self hate then, kid?Don't go feeling special or anything, doll. I have issues with every moronic pseudo-savant who works out her insecurities by tossing off cheap insults and opinions on the internet.
Wow, does the lack of self esteem come through in my posts