Theres No Gold Star Gay Men In Gay Porn Anymore. The Rise Of Sexual Fluidity.

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A lot of men in "gay" porn who said they are "gay" are fucking pussy like a pro, proving that their actions speak a lot more for them than their words. ofc they know that they are bisexual, but yknow, everything for views/attention, Even if it's harmful.
Do you also question the "heterosexuality" of the so called "gay for pay" dudes?

The hypocrisy and internalized homophobia going on this thread is astonishing! :joy: :relieved:
 

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Do you also question the "heterosexuality" of the so called "gay for pay" dudes?

The hypocrisy and internalized homophobia going on this thread is astonishing! :joy: :relieved:
"gay dudes that like fucking pussy are maybe not as gay as they say" = "HOMOPHOBIA"
Make it make sense :joy: :joy: :joy:
 

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Do you also question the "heterosexuality" of the so called "gay for pay" dudes?

The hypocrisy and internalized homophobia going on this thread is astonishing! :joy: :relieved:
A lot of straight id guys in porn are obviously not straight - they leak precum, suck dick like its strawberry flavoured lollipop, cum almost immidiately after pulling out or shot gargantuan loads. Not to mention that most of gay pornstars id as bi in personal life.
 

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A lot of straight id guys in porn are obviously not straight - they leak precum, suck dick like its strawberry flavoured lollipop, cum almost immidiately after pulling out or shot gargantuan loads. Not to mention that most of gay pornstars id as bi in personal life.
Or the most vasic fact of all.

You ain't gettin a hard dick and blowing load if your head ain't enjoying what your dick is involved in. Thinking "woohoo $500 bucks to fuck a guy" on loop don't get you hard.

Good g4p guys are at least bi.
 

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Or the most vasic fact of all.

You ain't gettin a hard dick and blowing load if your head ain't enjoying what your dick is involved in. Thinking "woohoo $500 bucks to fuck a guy" on loop don't get you hard.

Good g4p guys are at least bi.
Ehh kind of a messed up thing to say
 
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Ehh kind of a messed up thing to say
Which part of it is messed up? Its basic biology.

You can't get an erection just like you can't force yourself to sweat or stop your heart beating - its all part of the same autonomic nervous system.

What was so off putting to you about that?
 

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Gold star gay in this thread, and often generally, refers to a gay man who has had no sexual contact with a woman and sometimes would refer to himself as 100% gay.

I remember getting very wrapped up in this thread for a week or two debating many things like this, often associated with things like the Kinsey scale - no I am not looking for a debate on that one, I did my time lol

And, purely being flippant, a platinum star gay is someone who was born via caesarean i.e. has not touched a vagina in their lives.
 

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Gold star gay in this thread, and often generally, refers to a gay man who has had no sexual contact with a woman and sometimes would refer to himself as 100% gay.

I remember getting very wrapped up in this thread for a week or two debating many things like this, often associated with things like the Kinsey scale - no I am not looking for a debate on that one, I did my time lol

And, purely being flippant, a platinum star gay is someone who was born via caesarean i.e. has not touched a vagina in their lives.
I always learned a gold star gay was a homosexual who never had contact with a vagina since is birth and a platinum gay was a homosexual who had no contact with a vagina not even his mother’s (caesarean birth.)

We never considered it an award to attain or anything serious. Nothing meant to be insulting to women or trans men. It was just a funny label for someone who only had sex with men and considered themselves 100% gay.

I recently hooked up with a trans man and so yes I’m no longer a gold star gay but I still consider myself a gay man. I consider him a gay man too.
 

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Which part of it is messed up? Its basic biology.

You can't get an erection just like you can't force yourself to sweat or stop your heart beating - its all part of the same autonomic nervous system.

What was so off putting to you about that?
Well you can get an erection even if you're not sexually attracted to something. Morning wood is an example of that. Also, you can be sexually attracted to someone and not get an erection. But, what was off putting to me about it is the way you worded it.
You ain't gettin a hard dick and blowing load if your head ain't enjoying what your dick is involved in.
It's not related to the topic but saying that "if you're hard and blowing a load you must enjoy what is happening" seems kinda messed up. What about guys who are victims and don't/can't consent? Are they enjoying it?
 

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I always learned a gold star gay was a homosexual who never had contact with a vagina since is birth and a platinum gay was a homosexual who had no contact with a vagina not even his mother’s (caesarean birth.)

We never considered it an award to attain or anything serious. Nothing meant to be insulting to women or trans men. It was just a funny label for someone who only had sex with men and considered themselves 100% gay.

I recently hooked up with a trans man and so yes I’m no longer a gold star gay but I still consider myself a gay man. I consider him a gay man too.
I can appreciate the “haha” reactions. Believe me I understand your point of view having shared it.

It’s just that having met a few trans men and after the experience I had with one, I can honestly say I still feel I’m gay. Perhaps not 100% homosexual but I feel really no different than before.

I don’t now lust after vagina and I certainly have no interest in sexually pursuing women. Still me.
 

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Well you can get an erection even if you're not sexually attracted to something. Morning wood is an example of that. Also, you can be sexually attracted to someone and not get an erection. But, what was off putting to me about it is the way you worded it.

It's not related to the topic but saying that "if you're hard and blowing a load you must enjoy what is happening" seems kinda messed up. What about guys who are victims and don't/can't consent? Are they enjoying it?
We are specifically talking about actors in porn. not victims of sexual assault or morning wood.

Clearly a word or turn of phrase got you from that to sexual assault. It was not about that, sorry you got triggered BUT again even when it comes to that if in the much rarer cases of male sexual assault an erection occurs, it is part of sexual stimulation caused by being turned on in some way, despite the situation. Its literally how the biology of this works.

If a woman is forcing herself on a man or a guy is being used for anal sex against his will and he forms a solid erection, there is some form of positive stimulation. Its just the way the body works.

Morning wood is also an autonomic nervous system and exactly as I was saying - you can't just turn erections on and off at will.
 
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I always learned a gold star gay was a homosexual who never had contact with a vagina since is birth and a platinum gay was a homosexual who had no contact with a vagina not even his mother’s (caesarean birth.)

We never considered it an award to attain or anything serious. Nothing meant to be insulting to women or trans men. It was just a funny label for someone who only had sex with men and considered themselves 100% gay.

I recently hooked up with a trans man and so yes I’m no longer a gold star gay but I still consider myself a gay man. I consider him a gay man too.
Yes that was also pretty much word for word my description of the two so we agree.

The history of the term specifically in the thread is deep and you would have to go back screens to read the long discussions about it, talking about how the Kinsey scale was meant to reflect where you are now versus your entire life and so on - it got deep and in the weeds :)

And I agree - sex with a trans guy by a gay man makes him no less gay...and certainly from a pleasure perspective can be incredibly hot.
 

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What? Gay and homosexual are synonymous.
I agree it used to be synonymous to homosexual but it seems at least to me that the term gay is beginning to take on more of a “sexually open“ definition similar to queer (a term I still don’t like).