They become addicted

[8060]

I have never thought that my cock was anything special. I still don't and probably never will. My problem is that when I share my cock with someone, either in a picture or in actual sex, I become irritated when they act like I am is a cock. They start to act like they'll die from lose of air without my cock. Most of them are cool people that initially found something attractive about. How can I hold on to the attractiveness in them that I still see in the midst of them pining for my cock? Any thoughts?

 

[Principessa]

Well it is impressive. :wink:

You may want to try holding back on the physical part of your relationship(s) until they can get to know the real you and not just your cock. I can see how that may be difficult. If you can avoid grinding and them feeling you with their hands unil you know each other on a more cerebral level maybe that will help?

 

[8060]

Thanks for the compliment, Miss Lady. I don't get buck wild with people in that manner. I don't even club. I don't dress everybody else. I try not to sound like everybody else. Everybody wants to viewed as attractive but it seems like the majority of the people that I have met lately are horny toads.

I've been content with being alone for so long because it's like pulling teeth trying to get into someone's head. Being here on this site is the most exciting thing I've done in a while. I have met a couple of smart people that understand my position. That does help with the things that start to bother me. It's the overkill that starts to bug me. We can have flirtatious conversation all day and that's all good. When I'm not addicted to them, that's when my thunder breaks.

 

[psidom]

girls ration sex...so can us men.

hide your cock,tuck it,make no bulge noticable.
outta site...outta mind.

 

[8060]

You're right.

 

[B_625girth]

it's terrible when people want nothing to do with you and everything to do with your cock.

 

[B_theOtherJJ]

it's terrible when people want nothing to do with you and everything to do with your cock.

When you REALLY think about it, this problem seems so trivial in light of REAL problems such as sickness or poverty. The owner of this BIG cock just didnt wake up with it one day, he has been living with it his whole life. So he should be adjusted, and if he cant weed out the people that just want his cock and NOT him, then the problem aint with his cock, its with his mind and judgement.

 

[Adam875]

I have never thought that my cock was anything special. I still don't and probably never will.

You sound a very interesting and honest person, and I would guess that people don't know what they're missing. The trouble is that the 'cock' (and the size of it) can become an obsession for very many people, and I'm not immune from that myself. In many ways it's the raison d'etre of LPSG. It would seem that many well-endowed boys grow up thinking that their dicks are in fact normal or average; only in later teens or early twenties do they discover, from the admiring comments and attention of others, that this is not the case and they have become 'desirable' for this reason. A quick glance at your gallery pics reveals how this can have happened to you. In terms of personality, character, abilities you may be richly endowed, but for many all this will be overshadowed - even eliminated - by another remarkable endowment which will come to 'personalise' you. Which is why I've known some people refer to their big dick (the very thing longed for by most males) as a 'curse'.

What can one say? Other than keep it covered! And try to 'manage' your relationships with skill - though that's probably easier said than done. But the fact that you just don't want to be a 'cock on legs' means you'll win in the end.

 

[Drifterwood]

I disagree Jwood.

I think that this is a very good question.

If I am reading you right 8060, you are saying that you feel because of your cock and maybe what you do with it, people fast forward where they are going with the relationship, before you are happy to be in the same place.

I have had these issues. It is very disconcerting. You want to tell them to slow down, but they won't. They act like you have solved all their problems in one easy fix and then they want more and more. I wish I could say that I have found a way to deal with this, but i haven't. These relationships invariably stop very soon for me.

 

[8060]

I've adjusted well to having what I've been blessed with. But the things that get on nerves, will always get on your nerves, in my specific case. I've been one to be totally rude to people simply because they irritate me. I was simply looking for some tactics that other people use that may be experiencing the same kind of irritation sometimes. Thanks for your view on my judgment. I'll take it into serious consideration.

 

[8060]

Very insightful, Adam875. Thank you, kindly.

 

[uncut1234]

dud are you kidding me? how many of the same fantasy threads are you goin to make... GET OVER YOURSELF. lots of people have big dicks.. it doesnt make you special!

 

[8060]

You SO understand the point that I was trying to make. It's not like I want to be invisible or anything. I just want to meet someone who will take the time to get know the rest of me. It takes years in my opinion to GET TO KNOW a person. After that has fallen into place, I feel that someone would enjoy my endowment even more. A hefty brain is far more attractive to me than a hefty libido.

 

[8060]

No, dud, I'm not kidding you. I had a question and posed it. Furthermore, I never stated in my post that I thought my dick was special. What I was trying to illustrate were other people reactions to me. Peace.

 

[B_Monster]

your cool man.

No, dud, I'm not kidding you. I had a question and posed it. Furthermore, I never in most that I thought my dick was special. What I was trying to illustrate were other people reactions to me. Peace.

 

[8060]

Thank you, Monster. You're one of my favorites but you already know that.

 

[uncut1234]

You SO understand the point that I was trying to make. It's not like I want to be invisible or anything. I just want to meet someone who will take the time to get know the rest of me. It takes years in my opinion to GET TO KNOW a person. After that has fallen into place, I feel that someone would enjoy my endowment even more. A hefty brain is far more attractive to me than a hefty libido.

is it just me, or does your brain not function correctly?
you are so upset about people "treating you liek meat" and only liking you because you have a large penis...? then maybe stop posting pictures of you with a hard on and pink underwear and others with your cock hanging out all over the internet,, theres a start..... i mean honestly.. itd be hard to make another thread that made less sense than this one right here.. your on a amatuer porn site, showing your cock off, meanwhile complaining that people like your cock alot... ummmmmmm WHAT?! hahaha

 

[uncut1234]

Thank you, Monster. You're one of my favorites but you already know that.

monster is just upset that i have a brain and can think for myself and clearly identify all his pics as fakes, and multiple persons at that... every site has members like monster... they will never go away, so its better to just point and laugh at his fakeness !

 

[The Dragon]

People inevitably get greedy.
The contact/relationship/stimulus they recive feels good and instead of just enjoying the moment and stretching it they need to move on to the next pleasure they feel they could get from you.
A lot of the time this person feels that they are intitled to this stimulation and will place undue pressure on you to provide more.
What to do about it?
You belong to yourself.
What you choose to share with people and your interactions is very much up to you.
If people respect those boundaries and are grateful for what you choose to share then they are a pleasure to interact with.
If they can't it is up to you to walk away or put up with the demands.

 

[Jovial]

I disagree Jwood.

I think that this is a very good question.

If I am reading you right 8060, you are saying that you feel because of your cock and maybe what you do with it, people fast forward where they are going with the relationship, before you are happy to be in the same place.

I have had these issues. It is very disconcerting. You want to tell them to slow down, but they won't. They act like you have solved all their problems in one easy fix and then they want more and more. I wish I could say that I have found a way to deal with this, but i haven't. These relationships invariably stop very soon for me.

That's very observant Drifterwood. It doesn't have to be a big cock either. It could be any quality that people like. I am amazed when somebody seems to fall for someone else so quickly. It takes me a much longer for my feelings to grow strong.