i can totally relate to the OP on this one.... all these ridiculous terms are revolting, and it saddens me that i (as a gay man who has never and will never experience anal sex, EVER) am associated by the masses to this kind of thing.... while i understand the appeal this kind of thing has to flaming queens and gay men who (i personally believe) should just have a sex change operation and get it the hell over with because they may as well BE women, i think it's disgusting, unnatural, and unhealthy....
(**waits for the onslaught of man-cunts to retaliate.... do your worst y'all....**)