** disclaimer ** I'm not posting this to be stroked or told "you're beautiful" I'm posting because I have a specific question that I would like COMPLETE honesty about answering. Here goes:
I'm a hybrid -- I'm muscled but thin. (trained 8 years in ballet and work out with weights to maintain my muscle mass)
HOWEVER....
Women often tell me I'm too thin. However, a lot of men tell me, "wow"
Sooooo..... I'm wondering who is telling me the truth?
In other words, when people look at me, do MOST people think that I would be healthier looking if I was meatier?
Healthier looking? I think that you look PLENTY healthy... besides... being thin is an EXCELLENT indicator of one's general health. With obesity at an epidemic rate and the resulting complications like diabetes and heart disease growing exponentially, I think being thin means that you are thriving and doing well.
You have the legs of a Barbi doll and most models... you should be proud of them and not worry whether they are too skinny. What's bony to one man is meaty to another. Most of the women out there would love to have your thighs, and most men are still after that "supermodel" type of woman. It is just the Afro American men, the Latinos, most men from indigenous cultures, and a small minority of the crazy white (European descent) guys who are into thick thighs.
It is also a class thing... well bred men are not into thick thighs... they prefer long and slender ones... it's the lower and middle class men who are into thick women. A lot of lower and middle class men have short and thick mothers... they are more likely to be attracted to similar body types... most of the country club moms are tall and slender, you are most likely well bred as opposed to most of the regular mooks in the world.