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Hi,
I’m a ‘side’ not really interested in anal sex and don’t need it to feel fulfilled sexually; Neither topped or bottomed though I’m in my late thirties; Now I’ve met a guy who I think is the one and he feels the same way about me but he is a vers top and has a big dick; I’m of course open to topping or bottoming for him and wouldn’t mind slight discomfort; but am still afraid I might not be able to manage it and it may become a deal breaker(though he says he wouldn’t break up because of that);
It’s positively stupid to be scared at my age but any advice would be appreciated!
FYI- I can’t bear pain and am afraid of needles and always careful that never had a scratch or fracture even in childhood; so am also afraid of the pain...
I’m a ‘side’ not really interested in anal sex and don’t need it to feel fulfilled sexually; Neither topped or bottomed though I’m in my late thirties; Now I’ve met a guy who I think is the one and he feels the same way about me but he is a vers top and has a big dick; I’m of course open to topping or bottoming for him and wouldn’t mind slight discomfort; but am still afraid I might not be able to manage it and it may become a deal breaker(though he says he wouldn’t break up because of that);
It’s positively stupid to be scared at my age but any advice would be appreciated!
FYI- I can’t bear pain and am afraid of needles and always careful that never had a scratch or fracture even in childhood; so am also afraid of the pain...