So, since my introduction I've finally started a relationship with someone I've been chasing down for close on 3 years now. I spent 2 weeks with her on a holiday and things progressed physically very quickly. We haven't had sex, we're going to wait a bit longer. I have a big problem though. When things are getting a bit hot and heavy in the bedroom, I can't get an erection. It simply does not happen. Last night this turned into a problem because she thinks she doesn't do it for me, which is far from the truth. I don't know what to do! :frown1: Physically, I don't think there's anything wrong with me. If I'm looking at porn, I get an erection quite quickly. As I said in my intro, they aren't 100% hard and I don't get morning wood, is this a physical problem? When I'm with her, there is no erection whatsoever. The only time I managed to get quite hard was when I pretty much masturbated myself to that point. This is really embarrassing. :frown1: Has masturbating up until now, and looking at porn for a long time, given me a mental block? Should I see someone? Please help.