Been married to my wife for 8 years and together since high school. She’s very very sexy and guys always hit on her. Over time i developed a curiosity or fetish for sharing my wife. After a lot of convincing my wife finally agreed to try another guy. She was sort of seduced by this guy who was built like a God and had a huge dick. At first in the moment it was reallyyyy hot. I am recently having regrets though. My wife warned me that this guy could ruin sex between us because he’s so big and she may be rite. I can’t shake the feeling that I can’t and won’t ever make her cum like he did. She went crazy with him and even did things she never did with me and that kind of bothers me. The way she sucked his dick is what bothers me the most when I think about it because she’s never given me head with that type of enthusiasm before. I know 100% it is what I wanted and not her fault at all but I am starting to have a lot of regret. Any thoughts?? Thanks All!
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That’s allot for a first post! Did you all discuss what would happen before it happened? That seems to help. I’d recommend not doing it again if you have regrets.
Well she did warn you... It was your kink not hers.
Carefull what you wish for.
Carefull what you wish for.
Whats your girth? and what was his like
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Do you love her? Does she love you? How is your relationship?
You tagged cheating but this is not the case since you were present.
Handle your fears she kept choosing you for 8 years and your cock is part of that equation, talk about it with her.
Ruin for other men is a stupid porn phrase if you look on ask woman or ask politely you will get that answer. She marry you not your cock.
The enthusiasm could be the novelty for her or your jealousy speaking.
Talk to her about this how bad you felt you will be alright.
Yeah we did. Probably won’t do it again... but she has brought him up recently a few times so I’m thinking she may want to
Yeah I understand that but I mean she was into it too she’s just more conservative so it took me convincing her. But she definitely seemed into the kink of me watching her. She referenced a few times while exchanging emails with him how much bigger he was than me. “My husband is above average but your so much bigger” “My husband is pretty thick but yours is a lot thicker and longer”. I mean to me that totally sounds like she was kind of turned on by a guy with a bigger dick than her husband doesn’t it?
Umm I don’t know my girth actually I really never measured that lol. I think I’m decently thick. He was extremely thick. Not sure his girth but he claimed his dick was 10inches. Not sure if it was but it was huge so I think it’s possible. My wife couldn’t wrap her entire hand around his dick put it that way.
We do love eachother. Our relationship was fine I would just say things were so stale. Her confidence was low which is insane because she really is hot with a rocking body. Within minutes of posting her picture she had dozens and dozens of guys responding. So I guess I wanted to do something to ignite a spark. I’ve been into hotwife porn lately so I finally pursued that fantasy. The only reason I say ruin is because he stretched her out and she seemed to really like the size of his dick ya know. I can’t do anything about my dick size obviously. The first time we had sex after she had sex with him was amazing. She was the wettest she has ever been. I guess the jealousy comes from the fact that she really let him have his way with her and she did a lot of things with him that she doesn’t do with me. When she gives me head it’s more like doing me a favor when she gave him head she was slobbering all over his dick like it was an ice cream cone or something. She seemed to get off just by sucking him. Is that because he was so big? Because he had a better body? Or was she just turned on by a different cock for a change I dunno
Bullshit detected
Why is your wife exchanging emails with him?
She was for a little while before we set it up for him to meet her. So they exchanged dirty emails for a while. Sending pics and chatting for a little while till she got turned on enough to actually wanna meet him
That's good then, she's experienced a much bigger cock, but your above average and that is still satisfying for her.
Yeah that’s a good point I mean the sex is still good. I was the only guy she had ever been with other than a 1 night stand she said she had in college when we were on a break years ago so I guess I’m just a little worried that I’m not the “best” she’s ever had anymore ya know
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I’m starting to agree with the bullshit post.
You are so centered on weeping that smells sph. I this is real stop speaking with strangers and speak with your wife.
See all the categories of the forum several might be useful, ask a woman for instance.
Wait...you're in New York, and were "on a break" when she had sex with another guy?
Ross Geller, is that you??
The sad thing about some fetishes is that they're kinda like the Lemarchand box from Hellraiser. Once opened, there's no putting it back in the box.
Hopefully, if the love between you and her is strong enough and she respects your wishes, it'll endure and she'll eventually part ways with him.
Hopefully, if the love between you and her is strong enough and she respects your wishes, it'll endure and she'll eventually part ways with him.
