Left nip was my first piercing....then the right, then back to the left for vert, then the right for a vert, then the dick. First frenum, on the bottom, just under the glans, was self done. What a rush....what you get depends on what you want..do you want it to look good, do you want to stimulate your partner. Personally, I like to look of a frenum, but then I have several, see my gallery.