This explains a few things for bi guys

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]Does Sucking Cock Make Me Gay?
No, falling in love with a man - wanting to spend every minute with him and making passionate love with him makes you gay. Sucking cock is just curious and helping out a bud.

There is nothing wrong with male intimacy and male on male sex, no matter how one defines it. I believe we humans feel so compelled to "define" a person's sexuality that they miss the point for having sex. As a young Italian lad told me years ago standing on the summer deck of a gay bar/resort: "You Americans must cast each person in their own 'container.'"

I often remark that the bi guys get to taste all the "candy". Good on them! As to being bisexual at some level, most sex therapists and researchers (including Freud, who has lost come credibility over the years) say humans go the full range: heterosexual, homosexual and bisexual with bisexual being at the middle.
 

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Unless you only want intermate sexual contact with another man.
Having sex or desiring to have sex with a woman as well as with men makes you bisexual ………

Although I don't like labels perhaps it just makes you a red blooded human that needs intermate contact with another person
 

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Dr. Sue answered answered the question in the first paragraph:

If we peeled away all the layers we are all inherently bi-sexual on some level.

The notion that *everyone* is bisexual is highly unlikely. This allows no room for those who have either no attraction to the same sex, no attraction to the opposite sex, or no sexual attraction at all. The numbers and percentages can be argued ad infinitum but it's preposterous to deny their existence.
 
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The notion that *everyone* is bisexual is highly unlikely. This allows no room for those who have either no attraction to the same sex, no attraction to the opposite sex, or no sexual attraction at all. The numbers and percentages can be argued ad infinitum but it's preposterous to deny their existence.

I agree with you. The studies I have read on human sexuality show human sexual orientation to be on a scale from all hetero to all homo with variants along the way. I have no sexual interest in women, although I love to look at and be around women. However, when I watch straight porn which is very, very seldom, I am not watching the woman; I am watching the man. I will admit that some of the straight male porn actors have some HUGE cocks. Should bring those cocks to gay film! LOL
 

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What doesn't wash in Dr. Sue's article is the notion that a dominant/submissive scene is about serving but ignores the fact that serving can absolutely be a sexual attraction. She seems to be trying very hard to separate submission from sexuality. Sexual attraction and submission to a dominant is absolutely a thing, regardless of whether the Dom is of the same or opposite sex.
 
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What doesn't wash in Dr. Sue's article is the notion that a dominant/submissive scene is about serving but ignores the fact that serving can absolutely be a sexual attraction. She seems to be trying very hard to separate submission from sexuality. Sexual attraction and submission to a dominant is absolutely a thing, regardless of whether the Dom is of the same or opposite sex.

Your point is well stated. As a gay man who has been truly versatile throughout my life, being dominant or submissive is a very fluid condition. I have loved giving up my hole to a man as much as I have loved taking and dominating a man's hole.
 
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