This is what happens when you approach a female that posts on lpsg

[Galloper]

Haha. 'Fake news' will soon become a synonym for facts or information I will conveniently ignore because I don't like the sound of it. Could be I guess, but the same could be said of any news, and often is in Trump land.
She recognized him because he'd done it before apparently.

Question is, what she recognized? color of his eyes?

 

[twoton]

Haha. 'Fake news' will soon become a synonym for facts or information I will conveniently ignore because I don't like the sound of it.

That's exactly right. We're watching blatantly obvious confirmation bias in action and hardly anyone sees the irony.

To put it another way--from a pic that's online somewhere: "Don't blame Trump. He did everything he could to prove he is unfit."

 

[twoton]

The distance from where I live to Vegas is 600 miles FARTHER than is the distance from London to Moscow.

 

[EllieP]

When I see a man lashing out at women for being unreasonable for treating strangers as suspicious it immediately becomes apparent that he's never been approached by a creep and feared for his personal safety. It's not a good experience. It's scary and leaves you shaking.

My problem is that I will talk with anyone. I will engage a stranger in conversation, and I'll usually enjoy their brief company. But every so often, and unfortunately it's not rare, I'll come across someone who starts out nicely, but then things get weird, and I get concerned. Usually the look on my face is enough to deter all but the creepiest. But I don't think that fast on my feet, so they usually get the shock effect they were looking for.

Still, I wonder if creepers are ever successful? Is it only the shock effect they're looking for, or do they really want a woman to try on underwear for them?

 

[twoton]

Still, I wonder if creepers are ever successful? Is it only the shock effect they're looking for, or do they really want a woman to try on underwear for them?

I doubt they are. But I don't think it matters to them. I think they are creepers and simply don't get it.

 

[twoton]

I apologize if I'm kinda of iuncoherent at the moment. My old lady and I polishyed off a couple bottles of wine tonight and I'm not typ[ing straight.
That's not to say I'm not straight, though.

 

[sizehungry]

When I see a man lashing out at women for being unreasonable for treating strangers as suspicious it immediately becomes apparent that he's never been approached by a creep and feared for his personal safety. It's not a good experience. It's scary and leaves you shaking.

My problem is that I will talk with anyone. I will engage a stranger in conversation, and I'll usually enjoy their brief company. But every so often, and unfortunately it's not rare, I'll come across someone who starts out nicely, but then things get weird, and I get concerned. Usually the look on my face is enough to deter all but the creepiest. But I don't think that fast on my feet, so they usually get the shock effect they were looking for.

Still, I wonder if creepers are ever successful? Is it only the shock effect they're looking for, or do they really want a woman to try on underwear for them?

I have to agree with you on this subject . Women should always be cautious when approached by a stranger . This is a rather sad situation , but , one only has to look at the hideous catalogue of crimes against women , to understand why . I talk with women often when i'm out, they do after all , make up better than 50% of the population , so it's hard to avoid ,even if one wanted to . Hope to God that i have never frightened a woman in this way , because i love them , and i despise those " men " who wish to ,or do cause them harm .S.H .

 

[EllieP]

I dated a creep when I was younger. I didn't know he was a creep until we had gone out a few times. We were at a club one evening, and I was having a great time. I met a lot of new people that night, and we had danced a lot and talked a lot. It was a good group.

On the way home I told him how much I enjoyed meeting his friends. He said "They just want to fuck you." I was aghast and looked at him in shock. He just kept looking ahead as he drove and said "Yeah, all guys that talk to you just want to fuck you. Didn't you know that?"

I didn't know that, but I also didn't know that he was a creep. That's how I found out. If a guy believes that every guy that talks to women just wants to bed them then that guy is a creep.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I apologize if I'm kinda of iuncoherent at the moment. My old lady and I polishyed off a couple bottles of wine tonight and I'm not typ[ing straight.
That's not to say I'm not straight, though.

Damn, you weren't lying. Your room really is spinning!

(My guy had a few with some friends, he's already asleep next to me on the couch. Cheers! *Cracks open cold beer*... My turn!!)

 

[twoton]

Damn, you weren't lying. Your room really is spinning!

(My guy had a few with some friends, he's already asleep next to me on the couch. Cheers! *Cracks open cold beer*... My turn!!)

I wish I had a beer. But there's only a bottle of wine left and that s just too much for the mometn.

 

[twoton]

I dated a creep when I was younger. I didn't know he was a creep until we had gone out a few times. We were at a club one evening, and I was having a great time. I met a lot of new people that night, and we had danced a lot and talked a lot. It was a good group.

On the way home I told him how much I enjoyed meeting his friends. He said "They just want to fuck you." I was aghast and looked at him in shock. He just kept looking ahead as he drove and said "Yeah, all guys that talk to you just want to fuck you. Didn't you know that?"

I didn't know that, but I also didn't know that he was a creep. That's how I found out. If a guy believes that every guy that talks to women just wants to bed them then that guy is a creep.

IT may have been true. But a gentleman would never let a lady know that.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I wish I had a beer. But there's only a bottle of wine left and that s just too much for the mometn.

All I have is this 40 oz bottle of Olde English. Just enough to catch a lil buzz of my own.

I know the feeling tho, when you just want one more beer, but all you have is an unopened bottle of wine. Such a glorious crisis to find yourself in.

 

[twoton]

All I have is this 40 oz bottle of Olde English. Just enough to catch a lil buzz of my own.

I know the feeling tho, when you just want one more beer, but all you have is an unopened bottle of wine. Such a glorious crisis to find yourself in.

My cousin died of cirossis of the liver a couple months ago. Do you know what that is? One of the complications is that his esophagus got bulgy, like varicose veins on it. Eventually they rupture and the patient bleeds out. They say it doesn't hurt, though. He bled out in his bathtub. Started in his bed. Left a trail of blood into the bathroom and into the tub. I guess he tried to wash off all the blood. It also makes you have dementia. My mom died a couple days before that. She was a binge drinker but that's not why she died. She wasn't an alky. I drank a lot too much in my 20s but put a stop to it when I heard that my reputation was that I drank a lot.

 

[Phil Ayesho]

This kinda makes it sound like talking to a woman because you hope to go on a date and maybe be her boyfriend is a little, I dunno, sleazy?

The fact that you have bedroom fun with them is one of the biggest differences between your spouse and your best platonic friend, no?

Well it sure as hell CAN be sleazy- if YOU are.

The point is not whether a man finds a woman attractive or not. Its that there are plenty of NOT sleazy ways to get that across while still making her feel she is on safe ground, and that you might be a genuine human being.


This reminds me of a story...

My son was once petting the cat when he was very young. The cat accepted a stroke or three, but then the cat moved away... my son moved closer and kept on doing it... the cat looked away from him, did not purr, then, gradually, her ears flattened. As he gave the cat a tenth stroke, the cat turned, hissed and swiped him with a paw, claws out... and my son was shocked.
" But i was being NIIICE!" he protested.

You think you were, I told him, but you weren't listening to the cat.
Is it nice to ignore someone who's telling you to stop?


He asked what I meant, the cat didn't SAY anything.

and I explained that every cat or dog, just like every person, is always telling you exactly what they feel if you are looking closely.
I told him that if he tried to pay attention to the CAT- rather than focusing on what he wanted out of the cat- that the cat would tell him plainly exactly what she liked and did not like. The cat would teach him HOW to touch her and pet her in a way that the cat would like to be touched.

And what's the point of wanting to touch someone, if not to find your pleasure in pleasing them?


look its not rocket science.

flirting and engaging with the opposite sex is the most natural, effortless thing in the world... all you have to do is pull your persona OUT of what your DICK wants, and look at the woman as another PERSON who is telling you what SHE wants.

Even if what she wants is to be left alone... or treated as a professional equal...


If I smile at a pretty woman who caught me looking her way... she will almost always smile in that subtle way that shows she took it as a compliment... but is not interested.
All you have to do is TAKE A CLUE and realize that, while you might talk to her, laugh with her if the occasion arrises... that you don't hit on her. She's either taken, or its not the time, or she doesn't find you attractive.
She will KNOW you like her. She doesn't need to be hit over the head with your dick pic.

And really- If I walk into a room and a woman in that room finds me attractive... I KNOW it just by the look on her face. By how she responds to me. I don't approach women who don't look at me in that way.

In that rare circumstance when two people are both interested... then the game shifts a little... it may be subtle, and unstated in any open way... but it remains a DIALOG. All you have to do is be more interested in paying attention to her than you are in paying attention to your blue balls.

Most men fail with women because their interaction with a woman is about what THEY want from the woman...
She can TELL if you want HER- or you really just want your dick wet.


that's the thing about being authentic. You can't FAKE being a real person. You can't fake being into HER.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

My cousin died of cirossis of the liver a couple months ago. Do you know what that is? One of the complications is that his esophagus got bulgy, like varicose veins on it. Eventually they rupture and the patient bleeds out. They say it doesn't hurt, though. He bled out in his bathtub. Started in his bed. Left a trail of blood into the bathroom and into the tub. I guess he tried to wash off all the blood. It also makes you have dementia. My mom died a couple days before that. She was a binge drinker but that's not why she died. She wasn't an alky. I drank a lot too much in my 20s but put a stop to it when I heard that my reputation was that I drank a lot.

Alcoholism is no stranger to me, and I know the damage it does.

Here's to a night of celebration, and not one of regular consumption.

I've lost several of my closest friends/family members to the drink, and other drugs. I partake, but I check myself.

Cheers twoton. Sorry to hear about your cousin.

 

[Phil Ayesho]

All I have is this 40 oz bottle of Olde English. Just enough to catch a lil buzz of my own.

I know the feeling tho, when you just want one more beer, but all you have is an unopened bottle of wine. Such a glorious crisis to find yourself in.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Now that is a man in need of rehabilitation.

I'm terrible for laughing when the clerk is asking dude if he's ok and he nods his head like "yup, I got this..."

 

[Phil Ayesho]

Now that is a man in need of rehabilitation.

I'm terrible for laughing when the clerk is asking dude if he's ok and he nods his head like "yup, I got this..."

i just can't get over that a person in THAT condition would think, " y'know what I need? More beer".

 

[EllieP]

The one I get most often: "Hey Chica, where did that pretty smile go, eh?"

https://www.boredpanda.com/catcalling-selfies-project-dearcatcallers/

 

[Galloper]

The one I get most often: "Hey Chica, where did that pretty smile go, eh?"

https://www.boredpanda.com/catcalling-selfies-project-dearcatcallers/

Could be way worse than that